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What Happened When I Didn’t Take My Own Advice

It’s always so fun to share the wins and when things line up. But that’s not always how it goes. Although I’ve had a lot of wins, there are times when I look back and realize that I didn’t take my own advice. This is one of those moments!

We are faced with big decisions all the time. How do we make these decisions to get the end result we’re looking for? There are so many lessons to learn and in this episode, I share a major learning experience from just a couple of months ago.

 

Show Notes:

[2:35] – When you are at a crossroads, what decision would you make if your desired outcome was guaranteed?

[4:51] – Listen to this recording and find where Elyse is not activating decision making from the end.

[6:17] – Elyse gives background on the big changes in her life.

[9:02] – After applying to medical schools, Elyse and her husband started manifesting that he was accepted into the school he wanted.

[10:58] – We experience fear in situations of major change and uncertainty.

[13:05] – After a meditation, Elyse’s husband was confident in the decision to move.

[14:12] – Elyse had a conversation out of fear and the fear was mirrored back.

[16:40] – When they got the confirmation, she simultaneously felt overjoyed and awful.

[19:32] – Decision making from the end requires so much faith and it is so hard.

[21:07] – Right now, they are experiencing split energy and its consequences.

[22:58] – This is how we access higher levels of ideas and creativity.

[24:19] – The version of you that has the goal you are looking to achieve is a different version of you than exists right now.

[26:56] – What qualities are being cultivated right now?

 

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Welcome to She Sells Radio I am

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reporting a very special different kind

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of episode for you today

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um live actually well not live but it

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won’t be live when you listen it’s live

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right now as I record it’s been a while

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since I’ve recorded an episode if I’m

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being honest um but I am here live from

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my brand new home office in Maine

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oh my gosh it’s been a journey and I’m

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laughing this is a quick side note if

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you’re watching the video of this on

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YouTube by the way if you’re not

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following me on YouTube I would love to

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get connected with you there we do a lot

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of great video content

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um but I have scratch marks on my chin I

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look like I got in a fight with like a

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small bear I just saw it when I came on

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the camera and it’s actually literally

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my six month old and his like razor

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Nails he likes to grab my chin really

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aggressively after he is so quick side

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note if you’re watching you’re like what

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happened to her chin it probably looks

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bigger to me than it does to anybody

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else but laughing about that okay that

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has nothing to do with what I’m bringing

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you today but it was just making me

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laugh so I you know it’s always so fun

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to share

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the wins and when things line up and

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happen better than we could have

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expected in our businesses our sales and

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our lives and that’s not always how it

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goes and even though I’ve had a lot of

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wins in my career I’ve also had moments

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where I look back and I’m like oh I

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could have done that one differently

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didn’t take my own advice with that and

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that’s exactly what I want to bring you

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today and I’m going to be taking you

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into a conversation a private

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conversation I had with my 10K Club

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group coaching clients a couple of

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months ago and it was right after a lot

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of changes had happened in my life it

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was right after we found out that my

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husband Jason had gotten into medical

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school 11 Maine and we had to find a way

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to move the whole family up here it’s

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going to be interesting for you to

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listen to it now because this was two

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months ago and now as I record this we

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literally just got settled in Maine we

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found a home things are coming together

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there’s still stuff that’s up in the air

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like child care for my littlest one

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um but I’m in a different place than I

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was two months ago however the message

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from this I want you to hear because I

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teach my clients and I lead my own life

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with this philosophy of decision making

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from the end which is when you’re at a

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Crossroads what decision would you make

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if you knew that the end result that

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you’re looking for was guaranteed and I

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had a pretty big decision to make

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recently right before this was recorded

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where I didn’t take my own advice so I

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want you to listen in for what happened

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and for some really important powerful

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lessons I got from that that I wanted to

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share with you I will also give you a

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heads up I my voice in this recording is

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not great I have founded my own life and

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my clients know this too when I’m in an

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up level or when I’m in a big transition

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for whatever reason my voice tends to go

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and so that had just happened and it was

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I was like struggle bussing it through

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uh this conversation with them but I

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think it’s gonna be audible enough for

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you to listen and get the message and I

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I wanted to bring this here and share it

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with you because I think the message is

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that important

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um again it’s great to share the wins

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and the

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um you know the Facebook and Instagram

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like highlight reel moments and that’s

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not always how it goes so I had some

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really powerful learnings in this

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experience I want to share it with you

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and I’m excited to hear what you think

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and what shows up for you so again this

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is an inside behind the scenes call with

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my 10K Club Facebook group this is I’m

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going to share the part where I did a

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live training excuse me not Facebook or

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just my 10K Club group and if you do

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want to find out more about that group

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and joining up and joining our community

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you can go to elysearcher.com 10K Club

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to get all the details in the meantime

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listen to this episode

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side and listen in for what decision am

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I postponing or where I’m not currently

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activating decision making from the end

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and what choice would I make if I knew

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that my success was guaranteed because I

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as you’ll hear me talk about in this

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recording that’s always the fastest path

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to success so listen in I hope you enjoy

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okay

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lessons Lessons Learned oh my gosh all

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right

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I have I think multiple lessons for you

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this morning that I want to share on you

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manifesting the results you’re looking

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to create in your business and in your

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life

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um specifically about decision making

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from the end

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which is also something we talked about

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in Sedona for those of you who are there

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for the VIP day and then also about

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Learning to Lean Into the version of you

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that is being cultivated through

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challenges As you move towards your goal

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so I will say

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um

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our lives change very dramatically last

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Thursday I’m like not the same woman I

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was it’s not like well we did have a

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death but it’s we didn’t have like a

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death of a human family member

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um so I’m not trying to make it

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somewhere dramatic than it is but I’ll

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give a little bit of context

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and some of what I’ve been really

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learning

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so um I’m going to give some background

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I think many of you know like my husband

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Jason has been uh studying to go to

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medical school for a couple years now he

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started in his mid-30s I actually for

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those of you who have Partners you may

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relate to this this was like years ago

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when he was still a respiratory

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therapist and before I’d even launched

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the brand she sells

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um I had this vision for him and I was

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like

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you are like destined and designed to be

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an integrative medicine doctor

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and have ever any of you ever had that

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thing where like you share that with

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your partner and they like don’t hear it

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and then like a year later they’re like

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oh I think I’m gonna do this thing like

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I feel super inspired about this and

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you’re like oh that’s a great idea honey

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I really think that’s that’s something

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you should pursue so that’s what

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happened like about a year after I

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mentioned it to him the first time he

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was like I just had this inspiration I

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think I’m gonna do this and so he

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started pursuing this path this was

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I don’t even know what year he started

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pursuing this

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2019 maybe 2020 he formally like started

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pursuing it

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um but was doing it like part time while

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he was still working and then um for

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those of you who know some of my story

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like I launched she sells and started

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embodying a lot of the principles we

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teach here

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um and had you know quite a Quantum Leap

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experience and was able to retire him

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from his work as a respiratory therapist

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and he ended up like dading full-time

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and also studying for medical school

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and um we thought last year was going to

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be the year that he got in so we thought

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this was going to be a shorter term

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thing and it has turned out to be

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um he ended up not he like missed a

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deadline again kind of doing this in his

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mid-30s there was some stuff that

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looking back we’re like oh we could have

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approached that better missed a deadline

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prolonged the whole thing by a year

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um but he knew all along that the school

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he wanted to get into was University of

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New England up in Maine

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so a quick side note to this story when

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you’re applying to medical school I

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don’t know if anyone in here has ever

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gone down that path or you know people

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who have they tell you like you’ve got

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to diversify and apply to as many as

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possible and there’s like 50 of these

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it’s called a diode osteopath

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osteopathic doctor there’s like 50 of

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these across the country

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he applied to

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I think five you know he ended up

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reapplying this year applied to like

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five une the school he wanted to go to

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up in Maine was one of them all along

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the way we had been embodying that he

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was already in so this is like a key

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piece of you manifesting your Lex level

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goal like one time I just remember one

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day I like felt inspired to buy us all

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swag from you any

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um so I did that so we he’s been like

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wearing the uni sweatshirt for a couple

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years now honestly

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um we would take trips up to Portland

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Maine

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to like be on campus actually I had a

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photo memory pop up on my phone this

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week that was this time last year we

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were up on campus

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in the energy of he had already been

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accepted taking pictures walking around

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campus Etc

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so he reapplies this past summer

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um fast forward this April

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and he got a letter that he’d been

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waitlisted

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so we got a letter he’d been waitlisted

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at une and then he also was waitlisted

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at a school in Oregon

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um and so our Louise at our place

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because in the whole process of the

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Quantum Leap we like we sold our house

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we were like we’re gonna go live in a

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city we love for just a little bit

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between now and med school thinking it

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would only be like a nine month stent

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ended up being longer when it didn’t

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happen last year

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um so we we’re releasing and this was

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April of this year he got the waitlist

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letter like yeah mid-april and our lease

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expired end of May at the place we were

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in

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and this was a really interesting time

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and I’m going to share with you

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something I did that is actually like

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the opposite of what I would tell you to

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do now with a lot of hindsight

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um

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when he got the waitlist letter we had

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six weeks left in our current place

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until we had to be somewhere else

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if we did not so this is where again

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it’s like the part of me that gets to

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grow in her faith and God to grow in her

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face

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went into a bit of fear

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and I’ve always known like

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we will have the perfect situation for

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our family at the perfect time I’m

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pretty risk tolerant like

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it wasn’t a huge deal of fear I would

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say but

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um it was kind of one of those

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interesting scenarios where I was like I

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need to know what’s up for my babies

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like I need to know what’s up in terms

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of child care I need to have a good

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situation for them

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um and I was like I can ride out the

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uncertainty for a bit

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here and so I was like let’s you know

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stay in faith you want to get into une I

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feel that I support that like let’s wait

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and see if we get something in the next

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couple weeks from them that was that was

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Michael I was like if we can get an

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acceptance from them in the next couple

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weeks awesome and we’ll go ahead and do

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the move up there and all of that

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couple weeks pass

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no acceptance he’s seeing people from

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the group that he applied with like he

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joined a Facebook group you can join for

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prospective students he’s seeing people

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get off the wait list

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um but he’s not

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and um

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it was a really interesting time

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and we reached a point in early May so

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like you know less than two months ago

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where

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we were really at like a Crossroads and

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I had went ahead and applied for the

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boys to get into like this incredible

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School here in our local community where

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we’ve been living that like I know

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people

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Jack our older son had been going there

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part-time anyway it’s a really difficult

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school to get into like you we usually

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you’re waitlisted for years to get in

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but we had connections there

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um and I was like I want to quote

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unquote be prepared right I want to be

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prepared for if this thing doesn’t

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happen

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um again I’m like I want to share with

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you what I would do differently next

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time from the learnings here

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but so I’d applied for them to be in

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school because I was my mama heart was

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like I want a good situation for our

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boys no matter what

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and um so early May there was a day

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where Jason did this like really intense

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Joe dispenza meditation

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he came out of it he was so calm he was

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like

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I know we need to go ahead and move to

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Maine like I know it I know we don’t

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have the acceptance letter yet

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but I know this is the right path for us

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I was like oh that’s okay

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that’s interesting I feel that I hear

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that

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that same day

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we got the acceptance letter for our

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kids to go to school at this school I

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was wanting them to get into here

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locally

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and

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it was a really interesting time

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I allowed myself to go into fear I

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allowed myself to go into honestly a bit

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of like overwhelm with the whole back

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and forth with the process

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and I

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spoke with a family member for out of a

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place of fear that by the way you should

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never do that but I did this family

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member could only near back to me the

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fear I was feeling because that was the

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energy I brought this conversation to

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her in

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and I was like Jason wants to move to

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Maine

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we don’t have an acceptance letter my

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boys just got accepted at this great

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place here in Durham

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I’m

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this doesn’t feel good this doesn’t feel

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good and in the energy I brought this to

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her in she

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mirrored back

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that’s insane there’s no way you should

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move to Maine

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um you got to take care of your boys

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you’ve been doing this long enough you

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got to take care of your family

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and I went to him that night

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in a place not of Faith but a fear and

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of being done with the whole process and

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I was like

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I’m done I gotta have something steady

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for our family

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like sorry I know you feel like we

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should move to Maine but I need to

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secure something for us now here and I

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need the boys to go to school here so I

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feel like comfortable as a mom

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and he’s like okay

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I get it we honestly like we had a big

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fight that night it wasn’t a great it

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wasn’t a great night relationship wise

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um but that happened and he went about

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um kind of putting the dream on hold I

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was like you need to get a job because

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you need to have something to do and so

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he like applied for a job

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um we started we found another place

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here for us locally like everything

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happened we moved in this is the house

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we’re here

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um and we’ve been here about

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three weeks

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I think three or four weeks now

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and we’re like moving forward Jason had

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actually a great job lineup at a local

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hospital that he was supposed to start

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this Monday

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last Thursday

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um I’m in between meetings with clients

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I like run up to go grab a water come

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back down

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and he pauses me

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and he’s like do you have a second

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and I was like uh yeah sure I’ve got

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like three minutes I was about to go do

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a virtual keynote for a client

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and he’s like I got the call

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I got the call

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he said they they offered me a spot

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at University of New England

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and I need to be there on Monday for

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orientation

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and in that moment it was

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what I expected it would be if it

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happened where I simultaneously was so

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happy for him and simultaneously just

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wanted to cry

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we had just moved into this new place it

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had been such an emotional kind of it

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was a bit of an emotional roller coaster

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anyway again I allowed it to be

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um

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and

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I said what did you say and he was like

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I said yes like it’s my dream and I was

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like yes you have to go like you have to

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do it

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um but then Saturday morning he left

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to drive up to Maine

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so he’s been gone since Saturday he’s

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there we’re gonna go see him this week

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we’re actually gonna fly up next week

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but it was like in the process of 48

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hours

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went from

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um you know feeling like we had one path

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lined up

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to something completely different

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um I am I’m not calling myself a single

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mom I am not a single mom I have him I

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have his support

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the experience of it right now with him

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not here with me physically feels like

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that of a single mom so I have

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insane respect for every woman out there

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who has been on this path because it is

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real it is no joke

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um actually I know you just went through

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this for two weeks so like you get it

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it’s like two under three that’s it’s a

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fair amount right

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um but

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it has been it has been intense

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um so I want to share

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I’ll share one other thing that’s

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happened and then I’ll share the two

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lessons that I want to share with you

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um because there’s a real strength that

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I’m being

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I’m getting to cultivate right now

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um simultaneously with all of this

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happening

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um are we lost one dog back in

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um early may she was older and it was

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like we kind of knew it was time but it

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was still tough

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and then our young dog who was only with

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us for a few years who was like her

17:58

buddy and she was just like my absolute

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she was like my dog

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um this is the part where I may cry

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we found out on Monday that she had very

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very aggressive cancer two types and it

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was like physically she was just

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she was done

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and that was very fast and very

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unexpected and had to let her go on

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Monday and it was like it all happened

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in a day

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her health was so deteriorated and

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normally it’s like Jason would be there

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to go through that and he he couldn’t be

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um so I got to go through that and have

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that type of strength for her which was

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really challenging

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um

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and so there’s two things that I’ve

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really

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learned and I think at a deeper level

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than ever in the past week that I want

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to share with all of you

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one is

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decision making from the end

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it’s so real it requires so much Faith

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like we both talked about it and before

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we decided to stay here

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we said what would we do if we had

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perfect faith in this moment

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and we were like we would move to Maine

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this was back in April

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and it was there was a piece in that

19:21

feeling

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and yet

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again it was me it was like I allowed

19:27

the uncertainty and the unknowing

19:29

because I was like what about the boys

19:30

and what if we move up there and then

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you don’t get into school and

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we have to move again and the boys have

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to start over completely new again

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and um again I allowed that

19:45

that fear to kind of block the clarity

19:49

of the decision I think

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again it’s like it’s interesting if it

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was just me

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and if I just had to have faith in

19:56

myself

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um I might have been more comfortable

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but in this it was like I had to have

20:01

faith with the school letting him in I

20:03

had to faith in him that like it was

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going to happen for him so it was really

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interesting to get to see where On My

20:09

Own Part like some of the lack of faith

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was

20:12

so now we get to have the experience of

20:17

because there was like some split energy

20:18

right he was like no we need to go to

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Maine and I was like oh I don’t know I

20:22

feel more comfortable staying here for

20:23

the boys

20:24

so now we get to have the experience of

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what happens when you have that split

20:29

energy with what you’re looking to

20:31

create and when you don’t decision make

20:33

from the end because now we do get to

20:35

move again and we do get to pick up and

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shift everything and

20:40

find new school for them and

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we’ll be it’s you know a couple moves in

20:45

a couple months which is quite you know

20:47

we can handle it we can

20:49

um but it’s a process and I get to Mom

20:52

solo for a bit until we’re all up there

20:54

together

20:55

and it’s just been a really beautiful

20:57

reminder of I do believe everything’s

21:01

always working out for me I believe we

21:03

will find the perfect living situation

21:05

again I believe we will find the perfect

21:07

school for the kids and for the boys

21:10

and if we had followed through on

21:13

decision making from the end

21:16

um we would have already been in Maine

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and it would have been like he got the

21:20

call and it’s like yes of course like

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we’re already here it’s not a big deal

21:24

you know it would have been a different

21:25

experience of this

21:28

um so this has been a really beautiful

21:29

growth experience so for any of you

21:31

today

21:32

who want some coaching on what would

21:35

decision making from the end look like

21:37

for you

21:38

again I know we talked about that in

21:39

Sedona

21:41

some there’s a difference in thinking of

21:45

the end versus thinking from the end and

21:48

most of us goal set and make decisions

21:50

thinking of the end which is like when I

21:53

am there

21:54

then I will do that but we feel distance

21:56

and separation from it

21:59

which actually continues to kind of push

22:01

back what we’re looking to create when

22:04

we decision make from the end we say now

22:07

that this is done

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how am I feeling what am I doing how am

22:13

I acting and how am I thinking

22:15

it’s it feels slight but it’s huge it’s

22:18

everything

22:19

and that is how we collapse time and

22:22

space that is how we access higher

22:26

levels of ideas of creativity towards

22:30

what we’re looking to create and again

22:32

it’s not to say that if you do it the

22:33

other way kind of like I did in this

22:35

case that you can’t

22:37

you know you can’t get to where you want

22:39

to be it’s just going to be a longer

22:42

process and it’s probably going to be

22:43

more difficult I.E what we’re what we

22:45

get to do right now

22:47

and then the other piece

22:49

let me see if this tea is good to drink

22:50

because my voice is like oh it needs I

22:52

need some help

22:55

okay good

22:57

the other piece I’ve been talking with

22:59

those of you who are on the um in the

23:01

50k Club

23:02

on Marco Polo as we do our U squared

23:05

book study about

23:08

looking at what what are the gifts that

23:12

you’re getting to cultivate

23:14

as you say yes to your up level as you

23:19

say yes to your your goal as you say yes

23:22

to whatever is written on your goal card

23:24

that you’re looking to create

23:26

through this program

23:28

and the version of you who has the goal

23:31

you’re looking to achieve

23:33

is a different version than the one that

23:36

exists here in your present 3D reality

23:39

today okay

23:41

when you otherwise it would have already

23:43

happened

23:44

when you say yes to the up level

23:49

there are

23:51

we don’t get what we want we get what we

23:53

are right so there will be a process of

23:57

events that unfold

23:59

that when you know what’s happening you

24:03

can ride it out pretty well

24:06

the events are designed to help you

24:08

become the person who has your goal who

24:12

has your vision

24:14

and I had such Clarity in some things

24:17

that felt like a lot of contrast over

24:19

this past week first of like

24:22

like I’m so happy for Jason I’m so

24:24

excited for him to get to really like

24:28

experience this manifestation of what

24:30

he’s been looking to do for a while

24:33

and it has also felt very challenging to

24:35

suddenly be doing all the things here at

24:37

home that he would have been doing

24:39

um and then also with the passing of

24:41

Mona on Monday

24:44

but it was like

24:45

I get to be so strong

24:49

right now and like any part of me that

24:52

wanted to be a victim any part of me

24:55

that wanted to be disempowered any part

24:58

of me that wanted to sit back and not be

25:02

proactive

25:03

in anything I’m going for like

25:08

she doesn’t get to play here anymore

25:11

and well it feels hard it actually feels

25:16

very empowering because it’s like I know

25:19

I am so strong and I can say that with

25:22

such conviction

25:24

in an even greater way than I would have

25:25

said it to you last week because I’ve

25:27

been through some stuff where

25:29

I get to I have learned and seen the

25:32

strength that was laying kind of dormant

25:35

Within Me and I know that strength that

25:39

is the woman who leads the she sells

25:44

movement at the level I desire to that

25:46

is the woman who launches

25:48

what our next level is going to be the

25:50

Superhuman selling brand and does it at

25:52

the level that I’m being called to

25:54

that’s the woman who creates change in

25:57

the world at the level that I desire to

26:00

and who helps all of you

26:02

more impactfully realize the

26:06

accomplishment of your goals as well so

26:09

whatever the contrast is whatever the

26:12

challenge is whatever the hardships are

26:15

you get to ask

26:17

what quality or qualities are being

26:21

cultivated in me right now that if this

26:25

went on for any period of time I would

26:27

need to really master

26:29

in order to make it through this because

26:31

that’s the actual gift is who you come

26:34

out as on the other side

26:37

so I’m knowing that at a deeper level

26:40

than I’ve known that before

26:42

and I was excited to come on this call

26:44

and share this with all of you because I

26:46

know each of you

26:47

is going for something next level in

26:51

your life right now and there’s when we

26:53

do that the only way we don’t experience

26:55

contrast the only way we don’t

26:57

experience challenges is if we are

26:59

willing to remain stagnant there’s not a

27:02

one of you in this group who’s here to

27:04

remain stagnant

27:06

right like I know your goals I know your

27:09

Visions I know what you’re looking to

27:10

create so I want you to take this to

27:13

heart and take this to mind I’m here

27:16

with you I’m in it with you in my own

27:18

way in a different way but I’m always

27:20

going to bring and share with you what

27:22

I’m learning both as I’m like yeah like

27:25

I did that and that happened

27:27

better than I could have imagined and I

27:29

want to share that with you and like oh

27:32

I did that

27:33

I would do it differently next time let

27:35

me share with you what I learned there

27:37

so that you can have a more powerful

27:39

experience for yourself