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How to Thrive During a Challenging Season

Hey everyone, welcome to our milestone 350th episode! Can you believe it? This is what happens when you’re loving the process. The things we think will take forever to achieve sometimes happen before we even realize it.

In today’s episode, we’re diving into a live stream recording from this week about thriving during challenging seasons. I want to share the transformation I experienced during circumstances that could have brought me down completely. Instead of just weathering a challenging season, let’s think about how to thrive during or after it. Or better yet, how do we alchemize a challenging season?

Alchemy is all about converting something of a lower nature into something of a higher nature. So, how can you alchemize a challenging season? Whether you’re facing difficulties in your personal or professional life, there’s a profound gift in every challenge. You just have to focus on it.

I’ll be talking about the three things I did to shift from a challenging season to a new season of absolutely thriving. This topic has been on my heart for a while now. It’s amazing to think about the difference a year can make in terms of where we are and the challenges we’ve overcome.

As a company, we’re experiencing phenomenal growth. You’ll hear about what this season has in store for the She Sells brand moving forward, the vision for the podcast, and how we’re bringing that vision to life.

 

Show Notes:

[2:54] – Alchemy is converting something in a lower nature into something of a higher nature. How can you alchemize a challenging season?

[7:17] – What got you here, won’t get you to the next step. That is part of the process.

[9:23] – We have had several live streams that you could attend live, but now we will be sharing them more frequently on the podcast!

[12:03] – The live stream recording begins.

[13:26] – What a difference a year can make.

[15:01] – We can’t avoid challenging seasons, but we can harness them and use them for our own growth.

[17:13] – Have you had a situation in your life when everything suddenly changes quickly and you have to figure out how to handle it?

[18:52] – When we’re in it, we’re in survival mode. It might be hard to see the other side.

[23:30] – Once you realize the gift you are receiving, you drop the resistance.

[26:39] – We don’t get what we want. We get what we are. So become the person who has what you want.

[29:10] – When you are in these hard seasons, you are becoming the person you want to be.

[31:02] – You can start to see the parts of you that are not a match for the level you are aspiring for.

[32:04] – When you set an intention for your next level of growth, you get to “mold the clay.”

 

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Hello and welcome to She Sells Radio. How are we at 350 episodes if you have been

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here from the start my friend I want to say thank you and if you are brand new

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and this is the first time you’re tuning in I want to say thank you but I went to record this intro today and said oh my

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goodness here we are and this is how something happens right when you’re focused and when

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you’re loving the process and when you’re um just really up for being of

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service you kind of look up one day and you say wow that thing that I thought would be a long time coming or a long

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way off it’s here and so uh just celebrating that today as we go into the episode and I wanted to do I’m recording

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a separate intro for this because this is a live stream that I did this week

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all about how to I I called it how to weather a challenging season when I

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initially recorded it and then I thought I don’t want to use the word weather I thought I want because to me now there’s

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different seasons of life right and certainly some feel more challenging than others and I share in this episode

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about last year going through some of the biggest challenges and contrast uh

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that I’ve been in in my life and just the transformation like how I alchemized

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those circumstances into being in a place today where I can say what is

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coming in in my life and my business it’s like it’s so beautiful it’s things that I have visioned and dreamed of for

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um some of them for so long others are newer but like truly in a space of just deep profound gratitude for where we are

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right now coming off the back of what felt like a very challenging season but

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to the point of using the word weather I actually don’t resonate much with weather I you know weathering a

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challenging season I would invite you to think about this as how do you thrive

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during or following a challenging season how do you alchemize a challenging season right into your good because

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that’s what Alchemy is it’s converting something of a lower nature into something of a higher nature and I think

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that’s a lot of what our life gets to be about right so whether you’re going through a challenging season right now

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in your career Maybe your sales in your life whatever it is there is just by the

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law of polarity there’s an equal and opposite gift and opportunity inside

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every Challenge and it’s all about where your focus goes so you’re going to hear me speak to that today on the episode

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and I also just want to share as a really important member of our community um and from my heart to yours a little

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bit of where we are right now with the podcast and some of what to expect moving forward so we we are in a season

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right now as a company of incredible growth um we have brought on some the

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most phenomenal team we are we just launched um our new consultant

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certification program that we’re going to be kicking off this fall and this has been a dream come true to empower other

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women to go out and coach and and teach and train this material and to

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expand um the lives we get to impact you know not just through them coaching

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their clients but also to be able to pour into our consultants and help them build a business and a life that they

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are so proud of and so grateful for um and then so many other things that have

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been going on we’ve got an event series that we’ve Run for the first time here this summer in Portland Maine as I

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record this we’re doing our next event our second event next uh week all about money and then we’ve got one more event

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for the year coming up in September that’s going to be about masculine and feminine energy so if you want to get in

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on that one send me an email elysearcher.com and my team can send the link

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um when that’s available for registration it’s going to be really really transformational um but so

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many big things going on right now I I told my team last week like I feel like

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it’s definitely a push season uh not in the old push Force hustle energy that I

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certainly was brought up in and I was convinced that was how we had to show up to be successful in business that’s not

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what I’m talking about what I’m talking about is more it kind of feels like the season where when you’re giving birth and it’s time to push we’re giving birth

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to a lot of big stuff right now big speaking opportunities amazing clients

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like all sorts of things and it’s all in an energy of tremendous gratitude and humility and Service as well and with

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that being said the podcast oh my my love the podcast

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I have I have a knowing about our show about what is going to be happening with

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the podcast um and I have a vision for what we are going to be doing with

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everything from really beautiful imperson recording studio like totally

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elevated setup um strategy like just there’s so many

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things right now that I cannot wait to do with the podcast because out of

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everything that I get to do um probably aside from coaching and working with our

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clients and delivering events and doing that like creating this content and

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being able to come to you in this really intimate format is one of my very favorite parts of running this business

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and um and building a brand and doing this like I absolutely love it and we

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are in a because of the Season we’re in that the podcast isn’t going away I feel like I’m making this sound like the

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podcast is going away it’s not can bear with me let me get to the get to where we’re going with this um because of the

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Season we are in right now all of those amazing wonderful up levels that I want

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to implement with the show they’ve had to take a bit of a back burner simply to

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deliver on the things that we’re actively focused on right now for our clients and with our team so with that

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being said it feels to me right now you may have heard the analogy that every

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surgery in the middle looks like like a murder and there’s stuff right now in our company that we are taking apart and

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rebuilding and there are some things and it’s this is what happens when we Elevate right it’s like what got you

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here won’t get you there there are some things that we are taking apart and rebuilding and there’s a bit of the

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murder in the middle of the surgery Vibe with some of it now it’s again it’s all good stuff it’s all good things like

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everything is upleveling so much Within how we operate our team the company all

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of it and with the podcast I have felt I I’m going to use empowering

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language here because I know where we’re going next and because I know what I want to do I have there have been parts

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of me where I’m like oh I just cannot wait to do this now and focus on this now and it it is getting prioritized

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making these changes just for the company for our clients we’ve got to prioritize that first so with that being

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said I had found myself getting inconsistent with the recordings and if

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you’ve been a listener for a while you know that right you’ve you’ve probably seen that and I think sometimes when

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we’re in that state where we’re like o we’re about to birth something new there’s some good stuff coming and we

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know where we’re going but we’re not quite there yet it can be a little bit of that like it’s not wobble energy

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that’s not the right word but you know what I mean you know what I mean so I noticed myself getting inconsistent with

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the podcast which I didn’t like simultaneously we have launch launched a

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live stream Series where Tuesday Mornings 9:00 a.m. eastern I’m going live on my social media so YouTube

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Facebook Instagram LinkedIn and just I used to go live a lot more hadn’t done it in a while and I

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was like you know what I really want to build that sense of connection with our community um on a regular basis through

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these live streams and so my team and I were brainstorming the other day about

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um just what we can do in the season where there’s so much new being birthed

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and so many new things we’re bringing forth and it does have to be a bit of prioritizing what’s first second and third and so I was like why are we not

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sharing these live streams on the podcast because it’s the same type of content I would normally record for a

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podcast it’s already there it’s gonna change your life if you’re open right

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and receptive and I feel like when we’re connecting with content and be and just open to being guided we can connect with

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the right message for us so what we’re going to be doing for the next little bit is sharing with you on the show The

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live streams that I’m doing live and it’s it’s just like a normal podcast it was just something I delivered live so

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you’re going to hear a little bit of me engaging with the audience and taking questions you’ll hear me talking a

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little bit about some things that are coming up which depending on when you listen may or may not still be relevant

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but as always we’re here to serve you so if you want to connect about our coaching programs um getting involved in

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10k Club 50k Club our Mastermind are coming to an upcoming event send an email elysearcher.com we’re here we want

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to serve you we’re here to connect um but with that being said that is what we are doing in this season until we can

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Implement all of the beautiful Vision that I have around the elevation of this

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show so I wanted to tee that up so that that makes sense as you listen to the next however many episodes I know that

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it’s going to change you I know that it’s going to transform you if you open it if you’re open and again this

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particular episode all about how to alchemize a challenging season and I’m sharing with you things that if I look

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back last year there were days where it was like let me just get through this minute let me get through this 10 minute

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block let me get through this hour um so if you’re in one of those right now or

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if you’ve ever been in one you’re going to get this and this is going to help you move move the energy

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into creating something incredible out of that because that’s always the opportunity and again it’s all about

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where our Focus lies but you’ll hear a little bit more in this episode about some of the specifics of what was

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happening last year how it’s three things that I did to move through it and

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to shift the energy and just I feel like we’re in like our greatest Thrive ever

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and I say that with so much gratitude again gratitude and humility because it has been 100% a spirit God Source moving

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through me uh type of thing that has created this so anyway I appreciate you

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I hope you enjoy this episode let me know what you think share with me on social thank you as always for being a

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listener and with that we’ll get into the episode way there we go we should be

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good good morning good morning we are live all the places now you can’t see

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this on Instagram but if if you’re watching on YouTube LinkedIn Facebook

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you’re going to see the amazing uh my son built a Starbucks drive-thru on the

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couch behind me this morning and we are not allowed to touch it we are not allowed to move it so sometimes we have

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uh monster truck Chic in the house this morning we’ve got Starbucks drive-thru Chic in the house behind me Bridget good

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morning hello hello so good to see you um so today we are G to be talking about

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how to whether a challenging season this can be a challenging season in your

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business it can be a challenging season in your life hi hi um by the way if

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you’re joining on Facebook LinkedIn or YouTube Pop me a comment that is how I know that you’re here and I’m excited

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that you’re here and joining and um this has been a topic that’s really been on

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my heart to share with all of you um for some time now and I was thinking I did a

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quick little reel about this last week but I was just thinking about the difference that a year makes what a

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difference a year can make in terms of where we’re at um challenges that we’ve

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overcome and I’ll share uh I’ll share just a little bit of context so we are

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right now like in my business in my life we are in a season of some of the most

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beautiful growth abundance um like incredible things happening and

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I may kind of we’ve some of that in as we talk today really incredible growth and things happening and this time a

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year ago I was going through probably one of the most challenging Seasons I’ve

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been in in my life in my business in all of it and so to have some perspective

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and to say wow like when we learn how to alchemize and you’re going to hear me

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use that phrase a lot today Alchemy because it is about alchem alizing which is what is alchemy it’s turning lead

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into gold it’s transformation when we learn how to take what we’ve been given

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in a challenging season and actually harness it and use it for our

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transformation that is when we that’s actually when we can get to the other side that’s when the gift comes in um so

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it’s really really powerful and so if you’re just rning live we’re talking about um how to we not just weather I

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actually wish I titled this differently I think it’s how to weather a challenging season it’s really about how to alchemize a challenging season in

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your life how to transform how to turn it from that lead into gold right so if

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you’re going through one of those right now in your life like let me know pop a comment or give me a heart because guess

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what we none of us get to avoid these but when we know how to harness them and

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when we know that they’re actually the seasons when the greatest gifts come through um we can experience what they

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are there for which is for our growth so this time last year like I said it was

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one of the most challenging seasons in my life and I’m not going to share all of it um just for some people’s privacy

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and respecting that um but some of the thing there was some pretty intense

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contrast going on in my business with some things um that were happening and

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simultaneously while all of this was happening um we had just had a baby so

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had a you know like a three-month-old and uh had just gotten settled in a new home my husband had

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apply he’ been applying for medical school for a bit because he knew that was the path he wanted to go on and had

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been weight listed at his dream school and we were like we actually had to make

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a decision on where we were going to move before he before they told him if he was off the weit list or not and uh

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we ended up deciding to moved to a a home in North Carolina thinking he wasn’t going to get off the weight list

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because it was so close to when school was starting so we had just gotten settled in this new home we’ kind of said okay maybe next year will be the

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year when this happens and let’s keep the faith and we’ll go at it one more time I remember I was like I can do this for one more year um and then three

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weeks after we got settled into that new home he got the call that he was off the

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wait list and had 48 hours to uh go from North Carolina to Maine and I was you

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know sitting there with our two kiddos at home and you know red witer for the family need to provide and then needing

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to figure out okay how do we make this all work I literally still have moving boxes around me from where we just got

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settled we had child care we’ just gotten situated in North Carolina great child care that I felt really good about

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um and in that moment it was a uh it was kind of like Destiny like what are we

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going to do here right I I know if you’ve ever had a situation like that let me know in the comments have you had a situation like that where it’s like

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suddenly everything in your life changes so fast and you’re like what am I gonna do with this how am I G to handle this

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um so he left and I have a huge sudden appreciation for single parents and

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everything that they do to raise their kids because it is it is no joke right um and I was really blessed to to call

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in and recruit some beautiful help around that time um and then right around that time two our two dogs passed

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within a couple months of each other and so I say all of that not to be like oh poor like none of that because I know

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that those seasons are the seasons where we’re being refined um but in the moment you know I’m not going to like go back

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to the energy of it because it was it was quite challenging and I know that there’s people who go through far more challenging things as well um but in

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that moment I remember it was like every day having to cultivate and tap into so

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much inner strength that I didn’t even know was possible and was there um to be

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able to just navigate the day you know figuring out okay Suddenly Single moming

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not really but in that season yes because my husband was gone um how are

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we going to take care of the kids how am I going to run the business we just moved into a new home now I’ve got to figure out how we’re moving into another

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home and moving States navigating some of the business stuff at the same time and so it was a day byday um experience

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but now a year out from it there is so much wisdom that I feel like I can now

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share and sometimes when we’re in it it’s like we don’t see it right and I didn’t see a lot of it then there

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because you’re in it you’re almost like in I want to say survival mode it can feel like that right I think I think

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that’s that language matters though a lot um and so maybe we’ll choose differ

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I don’t know growth mode whatever it is right but it it felt like that throughout time certainly um but now on

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the other side I can see everything that was happening I can see the gifts I can see every single thing and how it was

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working for me and so what I wanted to share with you today is if you are in

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one of those Seasons where it feels challenging and it feels effing hard and

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it feels like you don’t know how you’re going to even make it through today um

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there is a path out my friend there is a path out and you are not stuck there um

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and it does it will not continue to be your experience unless you decide that it will um but there’s some really

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beautiful ways that we can navigate all of this um Richard saying survival mode shows you how you can s Thrive yes

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exactly exactly and um again even just today like reflecting on everything

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that’s happened and where we are right now as a company um and in my life too

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it’s like we’re settled we’re now settled in a beautiful home in Maine we’re reunited again as a family it

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actually didn’t take that long it took a couple of months um our business we just

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launched this past uh this past week we just launched our consultant

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certification which has been a dream for years and years and it’s like it’s it

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was a very emotional moving week um over the past actually two weeks now that

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we’ve um that we opened up for this because it’s been it had been such a vision for so long

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but I wasn’t ready yet and part of what’s been happening over the past year

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was it’s preparation right when we’re going through those challenges when we’re going through the pain um when

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we’re in the the lead part where it hasn’t yet turned into the gold like you

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are being prepared so I can look at everything now from where I am today and say man this was how I was able to

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navigate those things and how we were able to alchemize those challenges and this is what you can do too um to apply

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to a challenge season so I think the first thing is if you are going through

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a challenging season or maybe even call it like a a refining season right you’re going through a refining season the

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first thing to do is you have to control your focus you have to shift your focus

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from the pain to what is trying to emerge which is the gift there is always

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a gift in um in those challenges there’s a a story and I don’t know who like who

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this originated from but I remember hearing a story while a while back about um two girls who were being and I I

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don’t know if this is made up or not who knows right but it’s it’s the point of it is is what I want to communicate here

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two sisters who are being observed um for an experiment and they’re put uh by

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these uh these observers in a in closed room with a glass you know glass case and there’s a pile of manure in it and

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one of the S one of the girls sits down and just starts crying and falling and she’s like oh this you know this sucks

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I’m inan I’m in horse crap right the other one she shaks with joy and she starts

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digging and she’s digging and she’s digging and um The Observers who looked

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at her they’re like what why are you so excited what are you looking for why are you so happy and she is like with all

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this manure there’s got to be a pony in here somewhere so I say all of that to say we

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you can shift the focus from these are analogies I didn’t know I was going to use today but here we go you can shift

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your focus from the manure to the pony right where is the pony where is the

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prize where is the gift you’ll start to you start to to alchemize the situation

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and you start to actually experience that so last year again it was um day by

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day a lot of times with this but when I could start to see the gifts that were coming through of oh you’re being like

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you’re being strengthened oh you’re learning so much more resilience oh you’re learning how to navigate things

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so that you can help your clients do the same thing from that place we drop the

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resistance to what’s going on so this is where we can actually get really stuck and keep perpetuating the cycle and make

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it last longer than um than it needs to necessarily is we get in resistance to

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what’s going on and we’re like oh this is wrong oh this shouldn’t be happening and then whatever we resist persists

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right so when if we’re in resistance to it it’s going to stay there so if we can accept it and if we can be grateful for

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it and if we can say what’s the gift right I know there’s a gift in here somewhere what’s the gift for me then we

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start to shift and move the energy and things can start to move and transform and alchemize all right so that’s the

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first thing is shift the focus I had a mentor once who would make us go through

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an exercise when something challenging was happening she would have us make a list and say I’m thrilled this is

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happening because and list out at least 10 reasons and at first you’re doing it and you’re like I’m not why in the world

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would I be thrilled this is happening whatever is going on right why am I thrilled that business feels like it’s

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clining why am I thrilled that I’m fighting with my partner why am I thrilled this or that right and at the beginning you’ll probably have

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resistance to it but when you can start asking different questions and look at things from a different perspective

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you’ll start to uncover the gift so that’s the first step the second is have

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to understand that manifesting another level of results of money of success of

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abundance of Happiness of joy joy in your life whatever it is it’s actually not so much about the thing that you

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think you want so it’s not so much like if you’re like I want to manifest a million dollars right it’s not so much

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about manifesting the million dollars it’s more about you the way that you’ll do it is you actually focus on manifesting the version of you who has

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that so we take our Focus away from the external from all the things outside of

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us and we shift it on to who am I getting to become in this process and so if you’re in that

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refining season if you’re in that challenging season and you’ve set an

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intention for something greater that you want in your business or in your life and let me know too in the comments like

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what intention have you set for something greater in your life are you setting an intention for greater

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business growth are you setting an intention to I launch a nonprofit is showing up for someone here so are you

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setting an intention to launch a nonprofit are you setting intention to write a book are you setting an intention for greater Harmony in your

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home right whatever it is when you set that intention and you’re like yes I’m

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available guess what you get to become the person who has that because this is

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where people get things messed up this is where people get Vision boarding and manifesting and these phrases messed up

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is they they say oh I I want this so I’m just going to put it on the vision board and I’m going to look at it and it’s

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going to happen no in life we don’t get what we want we get what we are so

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whatever the intention is that you’ve set your work is to then become the

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person who has it and in those challenging seasons in those seasons of

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refinement in those Seasons where it feels like holy crap I don’t like I’ve got to do this thing day by day or I

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don’t even know if I can make it to tomorrow right sometimes we have those feelings and those thoughts your job is

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to focus on who am I getting to become you are getting to become the person who

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has what you desire when I was going through everything last year and I in the time I didn’t even put all of it

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together because sometimes when things are happening fast and you’re like like what’s going on Whiplash feeling some

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days um you don’t always see it with that level of perspective right but I can look back at it and say I had set

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much bigger goals for my business I had set better bigger and better goals for my relationship and when we do that it’s

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like all of the all of the elements of us that aren’t in alignment with what we

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are Desiring they get to be brought to the surface so that we can transmute them is this making sense so because you

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don’t get what you want because you get what you are you have to become a match

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for what you want and so in those seasons of Challenge and in those seasons of refinement you’re not being

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punished there’s nothing wrong you haven’t upset God or done this or that you are you are you have set an

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intention for something greater in your life and now you’re getting to you’re

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you’re getting mirrored the parts of you that you get to shift adjust rearrange

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the old limiting beliefs or perceptions of yourself that no longer serve that you get to drop and release is this

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making sense let me know so you are getting to become the person who has what you desire and so I can look back

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during those days where it was like minute by minute hour by hour a lot of

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the days and say what was happening again I was getting to become so strong

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I was getting to fall in love with myself more I was getting to grow as a mom I grew so much as a mom last year

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like spending time raising the kids on my own for a bit Val saying 100% yeah so

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I was getting to become the woman who has what I want and so that’s it so when

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you’re in in those Seasons you are getting to become the vibrational match

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for what you want and the only way for that to happen is for the opposite to be illuminated and that’s the third key is

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to understand the law of opposites to understand the law of opposites so by

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law when you say I want greater Health let’s just use that as an example I want

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greater Health the opposite must be manifested as well so that you can have

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contrast to determine what does greater Health look like for me or you say I

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want greater wealth I want to increase my sales right I have this conversation with a lot of the women in our community and some of you are on here today so

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hello hello if you’re on here I want more money I want to increase my sales I want to grow my business beautiful so by

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law law of opposites we’re going to get to see where are you currently in scarcity mode where are you currently

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not a match for abundance where are you currently making money God like all of

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these things that we do that block us for more money so we get to see those now again it’s all about your focus so

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when that happens a lot of times people will say oh no is something wrong happening or I’m doing it wrong oh this

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isn’t meant to be I’m not meant to be successful I’m not meant to make millions of dollars I’m not meant to be

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as abundant as I want to be these are signs that it’s not supposed to happen not at all it is the law opposites

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helping you understand all right what parts of me because again it’s not it’s

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never about the external like that’s just it’s just a mirror and a reflection of who you’re being inside I feel like

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I’m like very Italian today using my hands but it just is what it is um I’m I’m feeling this message for you today

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so you get to see where am I not yet a match for someone who makes multi-millions in her business where am

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I not yet a match for abundance because with abundance and we’re doing an event on this next week talking about money

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with abundance don’t make it about how can I manifest a certain amount of money

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or make a certain amount of money in my business because then I’ll be abundant no we want to learn and understand that

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you are abundance that you generate it from the inside out and when we can tap

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into that energy and that way of being and and focus on being abundance know

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that you are abundance then you’re going to get abundance in your outer world it’s all just a mirror it’s all just a

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mirror but the law of opposites means that we want to see if I want greater health I need to see where am I not

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currently being the healthiest version of me if I want greater wealth where am

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I in scarcity where am I holding back where am I not being generous right so all of these things are just happening

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so that you can get what you want and isn’t that great to know isn’t that so

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good to know that you are so powerful that when you set an intention for your next level of growth of transformation

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of abundance of wealth of success right when you set that intention that you get to it’s almost

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like Abraham Hicks talks about it you get this clay to work with right you’re molding clay so you’re going to get this

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raw material now to work with and part of that raw material is the contrast and

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seeing the opposite of what it is that you set an intention for so that you can mold it into what you want this is it

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but again the entire focus it it all depends on your focus like how you navigate this whether you alchemize it

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and move through it quickly and gracefully and elegantly or whether you perpetuate it and draw it out it all

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depends on what you’re focused on all right it all depends on what you’re focused on so if you’re going through

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that refining season my friend if you’re going through the season I’ve talked about this a lot on social lately like

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everything grows in the dark babies grow in the dark plants grow in the dark so if you’re going through a season where

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you feel like you’re in the dark there is something that’s growing but the key is what are you going to focus on that

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is the that is the way to navigate it so the sooner you can stop resisting it the sooner you can stop making yourself

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wrong the sooner you can focus on the gift the sooner you can ask yourself

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questions like if this were to go on for some period of time what quality ities

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would need to be cultivated in me Michael Beckwith talks about this it’s so powerful what qualities would need to

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emerge that’s the gift focus on that lean into that and you will you will

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find that the Energy starts to move that things start to shift so let me know is

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this resonating do you have questions on this if you’re on here live you can put it in the comments um but but that is

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that’s how we navigate it so while you’re thinking about what question you have and just anything you want to type

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in the comments while we’re here live I’m happy to uh to address there’s two I want to share two ways to go deeper in

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this work and I’ll I’ll look for the comments too um but first we have a completely free training that will help

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you go deeper into this so it’s actually more about how to Quantum Leap your sales but part of the Quantum Leap is we

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get to become a match for what we want right so uh we’ve got a beautiful free training we call it the four quadrants

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of Quantum sales growth in it I teach how I was able to go from stuck and struggling for over a decade no matter

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how hard I worked always making the same amount of money struggling with panic attacks eating disorder anxiety around

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sales money business um to really I mean talk about alchemy like transforming a

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lot of these areas in a really beautiful way and and turning my annual income into my monthly income in six weeks um

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so that’s searcher.com quadrants if you want to grab that free training and then

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we are actually we’ve got two events left this year but we’re sold out of the one next week so I’m so like I’m

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incredibly excited um we’ve got a soldout house coming here to Portland Maine some of you is anyone here who’s

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gonna be there live I don’t know if any of you who’s here live right now who’s going to be there I don’t know if anyone is with us right now who’s going to be

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there live but I know a lot of you are gonna watch the replay we’re so excited to have you and that’s all about um

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money which is the second quadrant of quantum sales growth but we will have our last live event of the year coming

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up in September um All About integrating masculine and feminine energy for your

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business success and it’s so beautiful and so powerful so if you want to be notified of when that’s ready for

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registration that’ll be in September here in Maine pop me a DM um Val is saying spring event was so good I’m so

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glad that you were there oh my gosh and and I tell you what too Valic they’re just continuing to get better and better

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it’s really beautiful this has been um the event series that we’re doing has been so like Spirit inspired and I

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really appreciate you saying that and um just the the inspiration that’s flowing

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the people who are coming in the opportunities it’s it’s really just like from my heart from our whole team’s

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heart um to put on these events and these workshops and to do it so I loved having you there and I know I’ll see you

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in uh in Portland again Bridget oh my gosh such an amazing time yes I know I loved having you both there um our

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community is so amazing y’all it’s so amazing we’re so grateful to get to serve in this way um so yes so if you

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want to come if you want to get notified of the September excuse me September event and when it’s ready for registration pop me a DM but do we have

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questions on this do we have questions ahas takeaways on you know how do we

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weather and alchemize a challenging season I hope that wherever you are in

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your journey with this today whether you’re in one right now or maybe you’ve been through one and you’re on the other

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side and you’re like yep that’s how I got through it too um

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this is always where the greatest growth happens and it’s the gift and it’s all about again it’s all about how you

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navigate it it’s all about how you approach it it’s all about your

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perspective that’s it it’s all about what are you going to be aware of during this are you going to be aware of the

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contrast and the challenges are you going to use that take the bounce as Abraham hick says and then get clear on

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what you want and who you get to become in order to navigate this that’s the gift and that’s where we go from where

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we are to where we want to be next so I hope this was of service to you um as

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always please send me a DM if you have questions on any of this if you want to connect with our team about getting some

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support in your own Quantum Leap in business and in life we’re here for you we love you we’re grateful for you have

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an amazing rest of your day I’ll see you all soon, bye bye