Elyse Archer (00:02):

Welcome to she sells radio. This is probably one of the episodes that I am most excited to record out of 124 episodes now. And it is the three keys to you having $50,000 plus months. I cannot wait to dive into this with you. This is, um, helping you have more financial abundance, more flow in your life. More freedom is what lights my heart on fire right now. And so I’m so excited to dig into this topic. And, uh, before I do, I just want to give you a little reminder. If you are listening to the audio version of this podcast, be sure to subscribe on your favorite podcast player. So you make sure you always get episodes for me. And then on YouTube, if you’re watching the video on YouTube, hit that little red subscribe button down below, um, to subscribe to the channel. So let’s talk about the content for today.

Elyse Archer (00:56):

Let’s talk about these three keys for you to hit $50,000 months. And gosh, I got to tell you, I used to think if I could just hit a $10,000 a month, um, life is good at that level. And I, I lived that way for a long time and life was life was good. I mean, you know, you can do a lot with $10,000 a month. And I remember the first time I kind of opened my eyes up to the fact that wow, maybe I’m thinking too small for myself. One of my mentors had said that a woman can’t really live. Like she can’t really live a decent life at all without at least $25,000 a month. And when she said that, I was like, it felt so big to me at the time. And, but she broke it down and she was like, look to travel.

Elyse Archer (01:43):

If you’re going to travel, you know, decent business class or first class, if you’re going to live in a nice place, if you’re going to have money for retirement, if you’re, you know, if you’re running a business, you got to have money for team. For sure. Um, you know, if you’re going to give to the causes that you care about, if you’re going to take care of family, like it requires that. And I remember kinda telling up my head and be like, oh my gosh. Yeah. And realizing how much I was saying no to at that $10,000 a month level, because I just didn’t have the flow for it. I just didn’t have the finances for it. And there’s this, uh, this line in the science of getting rich by Wallace Wattles and I’ll keep in mind. This is written in the early 19 hundreds.

Elyse Archer (02:22):

This is over a hundred years ago that he said this life has advanced so far and becomes so complex that even the most ordinary man or woman requires a great amount of wealth in order to live in a manner that even approaches completeness. So think about that. A great amount of wealth to even live in a manner that approaches completeness, not lavish abundance, not you’re living, you know, better than everybody else, but just to live a complete life, requires a great amount of wealth. And I used to not give myself permission to want that because I had a lot of judgments money. I had a lot of judgments, even stuff that was subconscious. I mean, look, it was all, it’s always subconscious, right? But I had a lot of judgments on, on being a woman who wanted that. And here’s what I’ve learned about money.

Elyse Archer (03:14):

As I’ve really dug into healing, my money story and healing, money wounds, um, money is not God. I mean, let’s just call it like it is like whatever. And when I say God, I want you to use your own language. God source universe, spirit, Jesus, Buddha, Allah. I don’t care like use your language. Okay. But money is not God. It’s not the end all be all. It’s a, it’s a tool. It’s a tool for your expansion. And what you have to know. If you have any amount of judgment on you wanting more, you were meant to expand. You were meant to have more. We, we live in an expanding universe. Like if you actually study the science behind it, everything is continually expanding. You are part of this universe. You are my, my personal belief. And again, this is not about me putting my belief on anybody else.

Elyse Archer (04:02):

But my personal belief is we are spirit in human form. You have that God energy in you, that spirit energy in you. And that’s the thing that makes you want to expand because spirit is always wanting to expand and experience more. You’re not meant to like hit a certain level, hit your $10,000 a month and then stay stuck there and never go beyond that amount. And it’s not how it works. And my own story is I stayed there for about 10 years. I stayed stuck at that $10,000. So month level for, for about 10 years. And I would have a pop here and there I’d have a, I got a $17,000 a month. Once I had a herd of lower moms, I’d have like a, you know, $8,000 a month, but it was, it was averaging to about $10,000 a month for like 10 years.

Elyse Archer (04:48):

And again, there’s nothing, there’s nothing wrong with that amount, except you actually still have to say no to a lot at that level. Um, and you don’t really realize it until you’re beyond it. Like how small and restrictive in many ways that that still is. And because I felt stuck, I felt frustrated. I felt defeated. I felt undervalued. I felt unseen. I felt, um, I didn’t feel this. I was, I was saying no to what I wanted to say yes to. And that’s not how you’re actually supposed to live. Even though that way of living gets glorified a lot in society in religious institutions, et cetera. It’s but I it’s, it’s not how you’re supposed to live. Here’s what you have to know your vision, that next level life that you see for yourself. Okay. From a financial standpoint, from a contribution standpoint, from a life standpoint, it’s God given you, you don’t want everything.

Elyse Archer (05:48):

Okay. So this is where I want to help you. I did an episode, a couple episodes back on learning how to honor your desires and we can make ourselves wrong for wanting more. Right. And we can say, oh, like maybe you were told this too, by someone growing up, like, aren’t you just, are you ever going to be satisfied with what you have? Or why do you like you already have it so good. Why do you want more? Like, why can’t you be happy with what you have, right. So we make ourselves wrong for our desires and for wanting more. But I bet if you tune in right now, you realize you don’t like walk down the street and everything that you see you say, oh my gosh, I want that. I want that. I have to have that. I have to have that. I have to have that.

Elyse Archer (06:24):

I use the example. I joke about this with my clients. Like I have never had, I’ve never had the desire to be a w NBA player. It’s not something I ever think about. It’s not a desire of mine, cause it’s just not meant for me in this lifetime. But for quite a few women, they do. And that’s their dream and that’s their vision. And that’s like what the, what they’re being called for. But I do have a desire for massive contribution to people’s lives. I do have a desire for a next level lifestyle. I do have a desire for freedom and ease and like impact. Like I, all of those things, I have a very strong desire for. And so in your own life, you have things like that. And those things for you that speak to you, those are, those are God-given. You can trust them.

Elyse Archer (07:16):

Okay? You can trust it. You wouldn’t want them. Otherwise, if they weren’t for you, Abraham Hicks says, by the time you have an idea, by the time you have an inspiration, it’s like 90% done. It’s meant for you. Now it’s just your job to bring it through to the finish line. So you got to learn to start trusting what you want and trusting your desires. My, uh, my friend Rory, um, over at brand builders group, Rory Vaden has this great line. He says, your calling is someone else’s signal your calling as someone else’s signal. Now he gives that line in relation to like your personal brand and what you feel called to speak about. You have to trust that if you feel called to speak about something or build a business or a brand around something that that means there’s someone out there who’s just waiting for that message from you.

Elyse Archer (08:02):

And it’s a signal from someone else. And I like to expand that. And I like to think about like, your calling is the signal of your higher self or the divine or whatever you want to call it. It’s literally calling you forth to this greater life in all areas, business, career, health, love, joy. And here’s the thing. Money is the how of that vision. Okay. So that increased abundance. That is the how that is how it’s in many cases, it’s how it’s going to happen. It doesn’t always just require money, but usually it does require resources. And the thing about money is money comes when you give it a purpose. So money has to have a purpose to come. And that purpose is it’s not to sit there in your bank account and make you feel safe. Okay? Cause you’re, you’re making God in that case, but what you’re doing when money, when you give money, the purpose of helping you expand and helping you experience more and helping with your, again, that God given desire in you to expand, that’s a powerful purpose and money wants to come and help you with that money is like, oh my gosh, this is the most powerful vision.

Elyse Archer (09:17):

I, this is so exciting. I want to come. I want to come help her in fulfilling that. So, so what I want you to do is calculate and look at like, what is, how much does your vision cost? Because a lot of times we don’t even stop to ask. And so we don’t, we keep it really a theorial and really pie in the sky. And we say, well, I want to do this thing. Like I want to fly first class, but oh, only rich people do that. And you don’t stop in calculate that it’s like, it depends on the flight 800 bucks, 1500 bucks. It just depends on, just depends on the flight 2000, if you find international and maybe more, but like, we don’t stop to get real about it. And to, um, one of my mentors would always say like, you take yourself out of the game because you don’t stop to actually look at well.

Elyse Archer (10:01):

So what does this cost, what does this vision cost? What do I, what do I require in order to fulfill my vision from a financial standpoint? And maybe it’s more than what you thought a lot of times, it’s less than what you thought. Um, but here’s the thing with money. It is literally designed to be there, to support your vision. And we want to get really clear and really specific on how much does that next level life that I desire, how much does it require? And I’ll, you know, I’ll, I’ll give some examples of, you know, in my own life, how that’s grown, how I, you know, I, I work with certain mentors where it’s like, it’s a whole nother level than what I’m doing right now, but it’s very exciting to me and fun to think about and aspirational as well. Um, but get clear on it.

Elyse Archer (10:47):

Like, what do I, what are my desires? And then how much do they cost? And that’s how money comes is when there’s that purpose to fulfill your desire to fulfill your expansion. And the other thing about money is, you know, for, for many of us, really, for all of us, it’s an indicator, it’s an indicator of how much you’re willing to allow in to your life. Um, and I would really look at like, what are you making right now? So are you at the $10,000 per month level? Are you not there yet? Are you at like 5,000 a month? Maybe you’re at 25,000 a month, but look it for the past three to six months, how much have you made? And that’s an indicator of how much you’re willing to allow it. Okay. It’s also an indicator of how much you feel worthy of receiving.

Elyse Archer (11:33):

And this is a big thing with money. We’ve got to get past these worthiness wounds and blocks. And it’s, it’s not about making yourself wrong for any of them because they, they happen usually when you’re a child. And, um, but then we, we walk around and we carry them and we, we keep ourselves stuck and we keep ourselves small. We keep ourselves saying no to what we want to say yes to because of some limiting belief. Okay. Um, and so that’s why I’m so big on releasing in my own life and in the lives of my clients, like releasing those and expanding your ability to receive and expanding, to do that. You’ve got to expand how worthy you feel are receiving. Um, Joe Dispenza says the universe will only give you what you think you deserve. And I want you to write that down. If you’re taking notes, the universe will only give you what you think you deserve.

Elyse Archer (12:24):

So in this life, you don’t get what you want. You get what you are, okay. You don’t get what you want, you get what you are. And I kind of laugh now to myself because I’ve got some clients who are joining our, um, our 10 K club. And they’re like, I just want to learn energy and manifestation and all of that. And it’s like, I never thought I would teach this, but it’s, I, I love it. Oh my gosh. I love it so much because it’s the secret sauce. Like you becoming a match for what you want is the secret sauce that will just cut, you know, in a 10th, the amount of time it takes for you to create the results you want in your sales, your business and your life. Um, but that’s the key is you don’t get what you want. You get what you are.

Elyse Archer (13:08):

So a big part of that is how are you showing up in terms of worthiness and how worthy do you feel like, does it feel natural for you to receive that amount that you, that you need for your life, or does it feel, does it feel unnatural? Do you feel unworthy of it? And that’s something I’m always working on my own life is expanding beyond. I do this above and beyond like the actual physical labor in the business side. I’m not a construction worker, but I mean, like the, you know, the actual work in the business, the action, um, what I prioritize above that first and foremost is me expanding my perception of myself, seeing myself as always worthy of more, um, playing at bigger levels, speaking on bigger stages, all of that. And, and then I let the action follow beyond to supplement that.

Elyse Archer (13:57):

Okay. But you gotta really like continuously notice, what is the, what am I allowing into my life right now? Um, and then how can I increase that? Right? If I want to phone a, have a fuller life, I’ve got to increase how much I’m willing to allow in. So there’s these three keys that I think are going to be, so that I think are so important to you hitting your 50 came off. Now there’s more than this, right? There’s logistics, there’s details. There’s the personal part of like, in your own sales or business, how do you do it? But three had a high arching concepts here. And I want you to just notice as I go through them, like, where do you feel if you’re not at the 50 K month level yet? Um, where do you feel like you’re, oh my gosh, yes. I’m like, I know I’m there.

Elyse Archer (14:41):

Or where do you notice? Wow. That’s one that I definitely am going to want to improve on in order to get there. And again, no judgment on any of this. Um, is this just about awareness? Like self-inventory so the first, the first part, and really the most important is you have to believe, you can have it. You have to believe you can have it. You have to see yourself as already there. And that’s, that’s a big part of manifesting what you want and creating. What you want is that you get that vision. So dial it in, in your mind, you practice again and again and again, every day, not just in your morning meditation, but throughout the day, how you walk, how you interact with other people, you practice seeing yourself as that person until it feels so natural to you. And you’re already acting as that person.

Elyse Archer (15:31):

So you’re speaking as that person you’re thinking is that person you’re showing up as that person. And then it, when it feels natural to you, that that’s who you are. That’s when it happens. Now you’re a match for it. Okay. And if that number feels big, like if a 50 K a month feels big to you right now, it feels bigger than you. And just check in with energetically, how it feels. That’s a sign that you’re not yet seeing yourself there. You’re not yet a match for it. And that’s again, that’s okay. All right. But I remember, I used to think about, I would, even when I heard the 25 came up thing from my mentor, I was like, Ooh, that felt big. It felt that felt big to me. And it’s all relative. Here’s what you have to realize. Nothing is bigger, small, nothing is bigger, small.

Elyse Archer (16:18):

It’s all just relative. And so you have to kind of get here’s the thing where we can get really messed up with stuff is we get stuck in our own, like Bob Proctor calls it your own paradigm, right? Your own viewpoint of the world. So if you grew up in a middle-class family or a lower class family, and you haven’t really exposed yourself to the thinking and the being of people who are at, who have healthier financial flows, then that amount will probably feel big to you because you have a paradigm of a lower amount of money coming in every month, but it’s all relative. It’s all relative that used to feel $50,000 a month used to feel unfathomable to me. Now it’s like, it’s the bare minimum that we need every month to keep things, to like to have the lifestyle that I, that we have in our family to have the team, to have the coaches and mentors I work with.

Elyse Archer (17:15):

And, and so for me now that amount that used to feel big actually feels small. And it’s, it’s just a perspective switch. You know, one of my mentors I was working with on a call the other week, she’s, it’s all, I just always want to know. Like, I always want to think outside of my own box. And I asked her like, what are you like, what’s your monthly cashflow needs for what you do? And for your lifestyle, she was like, oh, it’s at least a hundred thousand dollars a month. And that when she said that I was going to actually need and require a hundred a month for lifestyle and for her business. And I was like, that, that felt bigger to actually require that amount per month to need that just for your monthly nut. But it was like, okay, that’s helpful for that.

Elyse Archer (17:56):

Just thinking like, there’s a lot of people like that, like that’s not actually rare. It’s just the, it’s just your perspective. Think about it for Kim Kardashian. If Kim Kardashian had a $50,000 a month, she would feel like she was in the poor house. Okay. So it’s with all of this. I want you to know it’s, it’s not about you’re wrong. If all you live on a quote unquote, what, you know, all you live on that’s I don’t even want to say it that way. It’s not about making yourself wrong. If you currently require $5,000 a month to live $10,000 a month live, whatever, I don’t, that’s not what it’s about, but it’s about, this is just about contrast for you in context to think, wow, this amount that feels so big to me for a lot of people really isn’t and there’s actually nothing different about them than about you.

Elyse Archer (18:49):

We’re going to talk about that in a moment. Okay. And all that, this is, is just it’s about you from that grounded place. So you, from that place of feeling already, so whole and so worthy and so complete just as you, like, when we feel like we need money to feel validated or feel worthy, we’re going down a slippery slope. So that’s not what I’m talking about here, but what I’m talking about is you showing up in your fullness and in your wholeness and honoring the desires that flow through you, when you’re in that energy to know that those are God given and those desires for whether it’s a luxury trip to, you know, to Tokyo is what’s showing up right now or, or, you know, to buy that next level, dream home, or whatever, to retire your husband, like whatever it is, those desires that flow through you from that place are God-given and they’re going to require resources.

Elyse Archer (19:44):

They require money. And, um, and when you make yourself wrong for them, or when you say like, oh, that’s, you know that like, that’s me being greedy or what, like, no, it’s just that you don’t feel worthy of that amount yet. And you’re making yourself wrong for your desires. And I want to invite you to stop it, stop it. And so here’s the thing with all of it. Like, it’s just a decision as is everything in life. It’s just a decision. Um, not everyone desires, Kim Kardashian level money, and everyone desires, Warren buffet, level money, not everyone desires, you know, a $50,000 a month. And again, it’s like, if you don’t desire that, then you can either one, like, you know, maybe this podcast isn’t for you, but also you can take what I’m talking about and just shift it to whatever your financial goal is.

Elyse Archer (20:36):

Um, but, but if you do, if you do desire that, then you’ve got to just decide that it’s yours and you claim it and you have to start looking at other people who have done it, not as an excuse for why you can’t do it. Okay. If your, and I don’t think this community is one of, a lot of excuse making, I, I really don’t see that in a lot of the there’s, there’s both women and men in this community. I don’t really see that in this community. Um, but I, but it’s about looking at other people. Cause sometimes we’ll look at someone else and say like, well, she can do it cause she had help or he can do it because he had a leg up or they can do it because of whatever. Right. She doesn’t have kids, yada, yada, and that’s, I want you to start looking at other people as the reason why, why you can okay.

Elyse Archer (21:27):

And you have to, um, and it’s like, oh my gosh, if, and like learn about people’s backstories people who have the financial abundance and wealth you want now learn about their backstories. Most of them did not come from like super privileged backgrounds. A lot of them came from a lot of hardship, a lot of scarcity, a lot of challenges. And, um, and they just decided, they just decided that they were going to change it and they just claimed it for themselves. And when you here’s the thing too, if someone else has done it, you can too. And you have to remind yourself of who you are. Okay. Sometimes, sometimes we forget who we are and I’ve had parts of my life that felt so stuck. And I’ve had parts that felt almost insurmountable to overcome parts where I felt like they were just blocks that I couldn’t get past.

Elyse Archer (22:23):

And one of them for me was that like, I felt like I couldn’t get past that $10,000 a month level. And at that level it’s like, life was good, but not great. And I had a lot of desires that required closer to, they required more like seven figures to fulfill. And I had to start literally like seeing myself as a different person in order to make the change. And part of how I did that is I thought to other parts of my life where I had been really good at stuff in my life, um, like I was, uh, I was the nerd in school and I, and I, I say that with pride, like I was like, I’m smart. Like I it’s so funny. Even as I say that, I’m like, oh, that feels sometimes that feels weird to say out loud, right. Especially on a public platform like this, but like, that’s, that is one of my strengths.

Elyse Archer (23:17):

And, um, I was often like number one in school and things like as I was, I could just tear up a spelling bee, but then I would find in other parts of my life, like I said, like with my self worth and with my, um, like with my finances, I felt unworthy. And I felt stuck at that area. And I had to, like, I had to get back in touch with that identity that I had had in school where I kind of, it just felt natural to me, um, to, to place well on tests and to make good grades and to, you know, yada, yada do all of that because that had been my identity. That was the identity I created because of the home I grew up in. And that was, that was just who I felt like I was. And so that felt very natural and normal and it would feel weird.

Elyse Archer (24:06):

It would be like weird for me to get a bad grade, not to say I didn’t cause I did on some things, but it would be weird for me to get a bad grade on things. And so I realized how I put two and two together, if this was like, it’s actually no different in my, in my business or my financial situation. Except I had created the identity of a woman who was unworthy beyond a certain point. And I had created the identity of a woman who didn’t get what she wanted. And so I had to start thinking about like, well, what did it feel like to just easily and naturally like place number one in my class? And what was that like? And how did I see myself? And I literally would give myself like pep talks, like, please, like, you’re good at this.

Elyse Archer (24:47):

Like you remember you can, you know how to be. I say, you know how to be number one? Cause I don’t. I was like, oh, I don’t know if I want to say it that way. I don’t believe in, I really don’t believe in separation. Like someone’s better than somebody else. I truly believe we are all one. We are all part of a bigger whole, so I don’t mean it in that way, but it was more just for my, for me to remember in my own life, like you’re good at things. And he’s like, you, you know how to do this. And as I started to see myself that way, and as you start to do that, so tie it back. So think to something in your life where you’ve been, number one, where you had a talent, maybe it was singing. Maybe it was sports.

Elyse Archer (25:25):

Maybe it was, um, I don’t know, like cooking, maybe you’re amazing at that. And then it’s like that same identity that you have there of, oh, it’s just easy for me to crush it. There, start to see yourself that way with your finances. Okay. And how does a, how does a woman who is showing up at that level who like naturally and easily brings in $50,000 a month? How does she view herself? Okay. So, so that’s how I did it. I hope that made sense the way I explained it, but that for me kind of it’s it got some clicking where I had felt stuck before. The second key is you have to expand your thinking. I want you to start thinking bigger for yourself. Okay. Um, what would it look like for you to be earning at that level? What would it look like for you to be earning at that level?

Elyse Archer (26:18):

What w what would it require from you? So think about if you’re an entrepreneur, what would you be selling? What would you be launching? Um, I can tell you right now, if you don’t have a huge audience and you’re selling a bunch of low ticket stuff, like that’s not gonna cut it. Okay. Or it’s going to take a long time for you to get there. So would you be launching a higher ticket program? Would you be, um, would you be leading a group program? I used to have limiting beliefs around leading group programs, again, unworthiness stuff, you know, and I, that was part of what held me back from it. And I had to learn to get really comfortable with the vision of my, like putting myself out there and being willing to be rejected by launching group programs. And some of them went poorly, but some of them were less than dazzling in terms of results.

Elyse Archer (27:13):

And some of them have been spectacular, but I found that I actually love leading and launching group programs. I love that type of a container and I’m good at it, but I had to start to think bigger for myself in that way, in order to stay all past just that $10,000 a month, um, level, if you’re in a sales role right now, you know, maybe you’re selling for someone else calculate it. How much would you need to sell to bring in that amount of flow, you know? Um, and look at that. And as you, as you think about it and your, your logical brain will tell you, oh, that’s not possible. That’s too big for you. No, one’s going to want to buy that much. Or, you know, that’s not possible for someone like me, your logical brain lies to you all day long. Okay.

Elyse Archer (27:57):

All that mental chatter that you’ve listened to, that you accept as truth is not, um, it’s not it’s limiting, but like anything that your brain says to you about you can’t do this. This is too much, yada, yada, you can just accept it right now that it’s a lie. Don’t accept the thought, but know that it’s a lie. Okay. Um, but I want you to pay attention to, as you think about these things, as you think about selling at that level, in your, in your sales role, you know, maybe, maybe you look at what you’re doing right now and you say, there’s really no way I can see of how I would scale from like $10,000 months to $50,000 months in my current sales role or in my business model. And in that case, we’re like, okay, maybe is there something else that needs to be created?

Elyse Archer (28:39):

Is there another, um, you know, if you are in sales, like, do you want to, you do a side hustle? Like whatever it is, right? You, you figured out there’s always a way, here’s the thing. There’s always a way, um, to get there. Uh, but if you’re an entrepreneur and you think about like, oh my gosh, you know, to get there, I would need to launch this thing that I’ve really wanted to launch, but I feel afraid to do it. Um, when you think about it though, does it feel big to you? Does it feel ambitious to you? Does the hair on the back of your neck go up a little bit? Does your skin tingle, that’s your sign? That’s your sign? That, that’s the thing you’re meant to pursue and explore. Okay. And, um, and it will always feel big. It will always feel stretchy.

Elyse Archer (29:26):

It will always feel ambitious. And it’s exactly where you’re meant to go. It’s exactly where you’re meant to go. And with thinking bigger, I want you to get really clear, like, decide how do you want the experience to be for you of having these $50,000 a month? Like, how do you want your days to be, what are you doing? What are you not okay, this, this is something that’s so important because we can think, oh, I’m working so hard already. And I’m maybe, you know, I’m at the $10,000 a month, maybe 15, maybe $20,000 a month level. But I feel like I’m working all the time. And I just can’t imagine. I can’t imagine like how I could possibly work more. Here’s the thing. Like, I actually work way less now that I’m like that I’m B I’m scaled beyond the $50,000 a month level.

Elyse Archer (30:17):

But like, I work way less now than I used to. Um, I used to work so many more hours for just, it was lower payoff stuff. It was, it wasn’t aligned with my purpose. It was low level activity. And I worked a lot and it felt exhausting and it felt not all of it, but a lot of it felt depleting. This isn’t about you just grinding your way there. It’s, it’s actually about a process of releasing what doesn’t serve you to get to that goal. And then about allowing and more good more of what you want. And so, as we release things that don’t serve, I mean, that’s everything from limiting beliefs, right? It’s too, it’s too much for me. I couldn’t do that. I’m not worthy. It’s going to be hard. And then from a tactical, from an effort, an action standpoint, what are you putting a lot of time into right now that just doesn’t have a big payoff for you?

Elyse Archer (31:14):

Um, and you’re gonna need to release those things in order to get there, but it’s not about just piling on more of the same. It’s about releasing what no longer serves releasing. What’s not in alignment with that next level life for yourself that you have at the $50,000 a month level. And, um, and then it’s about creating the space to allow in more of what you want more good, more abundance, more help. Okay. And that’s the, that’s the third piece here is the third key is you have to expand your capacity to receive. You’ve got to expand your capacity to receive and to allow. And I want you to just take note of what are your limits right now? Where are you limiting yourself? So notice how much you allow in financially. How much do you allow in experience wise? Do you let yourself travel first class?

Elyse Archer (32:10):

Do you buy the shoes and the wardrobe you want? Where are you limiting what you allow in one of my girlfriends and I, she and I have fun with this talking about this. I’m like this concept of million dollar experiences. And she and I are both on the seven figure a track together. And we’re like, we just have fun talking about this of, you know, what is it like to have a, what is it like to have that million dollar experience? You know? And it’s, it require a million dollars, uh, to have it either, but how can I make this experience? How can I make this experience feel like a million dollar experience? How much more can I receive in this moment? And it doesn’t always require blow in the bank. Like, it’s, it could be, Hey, I’m going to buy myself fresh flowers for my office because today, and I do this for myself most, every week.

Elyse Archer (33:05):

Like when I’m, I pour a lot out to other people all day, which I know you do too. And as I’m pouring into my clients and my team, I like having fresh flowers near me. I like that energy. I like that that feel, um, you know, what would it look like to go on a walk and like be present for it and not be, I’m really disciplined about boundaries now. And it’s a rare time that I’m like with my son that I’m, you know, maybe I’m checking eat. Like that’s very rare. It’s not that it doesn’t happen. Cause sometimes it has to, but it’s, it’s rare. And I, I give myself permission to have these experiences of presence, right? Like that’s a million dollar experience for me is being present as I play with him as I go for a walk outside, like just noticing the abundance all around and breathing in.

Elyse Archer (33:54):

How does that feel to have this flow? How does that feel to, um, to have this? Like, just to see the abundance all around me, and then I want you to look at how does the woman, so as you expand your capacity to receive and to allow, how does the woman who has these $50,000 months, like how does she allow in her life? How does she show up? How good is she at receiving? So just think about that. What would that be like? How does she carry herself throughout the day? Does she downplay or minimize herself? Um, does she talk proudly about what she’s doing? Not in a boastful way, but like in a, oh my gosh, I’m so excited about this. How easy is it for her to receive praise, support and help, and how worthy does she feel? And as you go to this level, it really is about expanding your capacity to receive in all areas, financially attention, praise, support.

Elyse Archer (34:57):

Okay. So with your team, if you’re, whether you’re an entrepreneur or whether you’re in sales, it’s about having the right team in place to help support you on that growth journey. Um, you know, even, I always believed in this, when I was in corporate sales, I paid out of pocket for an assistant because I knew that in order to grow to the next level, I was going to need help and support. And I needed to get the things off my plate. That weren’t the best use of my time on the personal front too. And not even outside of your career, but on the personal front, you’re going to, it’s about receiving more support, delegating more, maybe getting a personal assistant, uh, expanding your personal team. So it’s really all about expanding your capacity. And I want you to think about it this way. A plant kept in a small container can only literally expand to the size of that container, but if you give it a bigger one, it has the space now to grow and bloom, and it will expand into that container.

Elyse Archer (35:56):

And it’s the same with you. It’s the same with you. So when you put yourself in a bigger container, that’s when you allow yourself, you finally, that’s what actually allows you to grow and bloom to the size of that bigger container. So there’s so much truth in just nature and how things work in the natural world that we can apply to our lives that are our financial situation as well, to help guide us and lead us in the right direction. And it’s really powerful. It’s really, really powerful. And so with all of this, if you’ve made it this far in the podcast and you’re, oh my gosh, I’ve loved the idea of having $50,000 months. And I’m actually starting to see myself as potentially being at that level. Like I can see now, I don’t know how, but I can see that it’s possible for me.

Elyse Archer (36:44):

I can, I can at least get excited about the idea that it’s possible for me. I’m. So I don’t even have words I’m overjoyed and excited to share about my new program, which is the 50 K club. And here’s the whole design behind it is to be the container for a very small group of women to grow to that $50,000 and beyond a month level, because to get there, you’re going to need a coach. You’re going to need mentorship. And for me, when I decided I wanted to go from six figures to seven figures, I knew the fastest way to get there was to hire a woman who had already done it. It didn’t have to be a woman. It happened to be a woman. I worked with male coaches as well, and I loved both experiences, but in this case it was a, a woman.

Elyse Archer (37:32):

And I, I wanted to know how she thought and I wanted to know how she looked at things. And what I found was her perspective was so different than mine on things. And because I had access to that perspective, I found out what was holding me back and it wasn’t what I thought it was at all. I thought I was going to have to work harder and it was going to be a grind to get there. But I learned what I learned was it was a whole different way of thinking. And I learned to think that way. And I learned to see myself that way. And I developed this whole new level of love and appreciation for myself and self-belief in a whole new way. And when I did that, that, that jump, that growth for me happened so fast going from $10,000 a month, to me, it was actually a hundred thousand dollars months in six weeks that I had to, I, it was almost like I had to catch up with myself in that way, but I learned so much along the way, and I learned how it works and how it happens.

Elyse Archer (38:37):

And I learned how we can. I’m a big fan of like, things do not have to take a long time. It does not have to take a long time for you to have your quantum leap and for you to claim these $50,000 months for yourself, if you think you’re at $10,000 months right now, and you think, oh, it’s going to take a couple of years. You’re thinking way too small for yourself. And I want you to, I want you to start thinking way bigger about what’s possible for you. Again, if I can do this, anyone can do this. Okay. Um, and I’ve learned so much along the way too, and I’ve learned what to do, what not to do. I’ve made a lot of mistakes and I’ve grown a ton along the way, too, which is part of why I created this program. And I created it for a number of reasons.

Elyse Archer (39:24):

And one is just, you know, we had so many women in the 10 K club, which is for women to hit their $10,000 a month, um, who hit that and hit it fast. And then we’re like, oh my gosh, what’s next? Like, how do I get to that next level? And so I created this program initially based upon their need for something like something bigger, that next level container for them to grow to. Cause again, a $10,000 a month is great. And if you’re not there yet, it’s like, that’s your next step? Because life is really good at that level. I don’t want to downplay that at all. Life is good at that level. Um, but if you’re there or if you’re close, like there’s a whole nother level for you, sister, that’s exciting. And that’s expansive beyond what you can imagine. And the conversation like the, the conversation at this level is so different and it’s so inspiring.

Elyse Archer (40:19):

And it’s so exciting too, because it’s really about allowing in these new levels of abundance and flow into your life that you didn’t think were possible for you. And what I love now more than anything is helping women. And my, my male clients do high service program is specifically for women, but helping them see that life has meant to be abundant. Um, life is truly meant to be abundant. And if it’s not, something’s off, it’s, you’re kinking the hose in some way, and abundance is different for everyone. Um, but for me, it’s, it’s about freedom. It’s, it’s about the ability to do what I want when I want, without stopping to think about the cost without having to evaluate that without limiting myself, um, and, and about doing it too, in a way that feels good. So I’m not, and this program is not about you like grinding and working harder to get there.

Elyse Archer (41:15):

That’s not it at all. I’m not the coach for that. If that’s what you think you have to do, or if that’s what you’re looking for, it’s a lot of what we talked about in this podcast today. That’s how you’re going to get there. Okay. And it’s, um, I found when you’re at that level, when you’re coming back to abundance, when you’re at that $50,000 month level, and then beyond life starts to get exciting, like it’s really, it gets exciting. There’s, there’s no next levels that you’ll go to as well. And we’re gonna launch the hundred K club at some point, too, for the women from this program. But, um, but 50 K months are expansive. And when you’re at that level, like you don’t really have to look so much at how much things cost. And it is, um, you’re out of like those base level states of survival, and you’re more in the space of expansion and creation.

Elyse Archer (42:11):

How much can I give? How much can I receive? How much can I impact other people, um, your energy isn’t tapped by those survival emotions. And it’s, it’s freed up to go into creation. And that’s why it gets really exciting to me and really fun, like in my own life, it’s made profound shifts. And that’s what I’m really so excited about what this program is helping this right group of women make that same shift to, into that higher state of being of not really having to look at the price tag for things like being super visible, being super seen, having the, the impact they want in their career, in their lives. And then creating from that higher level space, like really thinking more on the lines of legacy and what is your life going to be about and how can you contribute and how can you serve and impact at that greater level?

Elyse Archer (43:05):

And it gets it, it’s beautiful. It’s absolutely beautiful. What’s possible for you at that level. And so the program, if you want to check it out and apply@leastarcher.com slash 50 K club, at least sartre.com/fifty K club, um, you’ll see, on there, what’s included. So I’m not going to spend a lot of time on that now, but if you’re still listening to this, you are possibly very, probably interested. So I’ll do high level. What you receive through this is a lot of one-on-one access to me, uh, which is why the program is limited to just 10 women. So it’s a lot of one-on-one access to me. It’s, uh, actually access to my mentors as well, which I personally invest several hundred thousand dollars a year in working with these people. It’s the best of the best in terms of mentors from a business, a sales, a marketing standpoint, um, to a spiritual standpoint, to, uh, we’ve got a guest mentor who is, he’s the man behind you, if you know, Brendon Burchard or James Wedmore, like helping them grow and scale their businesses to nine figures.

Elyse Archer (44:12):

So his angle is really about wealth multiplication. And how do you create generational wealth for, you know, for your family, for your kids, their kids. And I wanted to give access to that level of mentorship in this program as well. Um, but it, uh, it’s like a rate. You couldn’t get access to these people for outside of that. Uh, we’re going to be masterminding in person in New York city at a super Luxe, um, upscale hotel. Uh, there’s a charitable giving component to this too. So we’re actually donating 10% of the profits of this program to a, um, a cause that I’m really passionate about that you can read more about on the webpage, because again, this is, as you allow more into your life, it’s, it’s not about hoarding it. It’s not about a land grab for more, it’s about flow. It’s about flow in and it’s about flow out and continuing to give and receive at higher levels.

Elyse Archer (45:08):

And that’s a huge piece of what’s important in my life. And what I know is important to the women who are going to be in this program too. So, um, it is an application program. Spots are limited to 10 women because it is so high touch on my end and to apply, you do need to be at that $10,000 a month level already. So if you’re not there, no worries. Like you will be there and focus on getting there first. And if you’re listening to this and you’re not there and you’re, you want to get there, join the 10 K club. Oh my gosh, that’s what it’s there for. That’s what it’s there for is to get you there and get you there fast so that you can be ready to ascend to that next level. Um, and you can, you know, you can learn about that.

Elyse Archer (45:47):

I believe searcher.com/ten K club, but this program is, if you’re already at that $10,000 a month level, let’s get you, let’s get you to $50,000 a month. Let’s get you to beyond. And, and that’s what this program is there for. So we kick off. If you’re listening to this in real time, we kick off in December of 2021, and you can apply@eleasearcher.com slash 50 K club. And if you’re listening to this later, you know, check the page and see if we have enrollment coming up, like check it and find out. But the pricing for this, the investment for this will be lowest for this first group of women who go through. I can tell you that because it’s a steal of a deal for what you’re getting. And, um, and this is the time to do it. If you’re ready, if you’re, if you’re really ready to claim that $50,000 a month and beyond for you.

Elyse Archer (46:36):

So, um, at least archer.com/fifty K club to go ahead and apply if you’re listening, like apply now. Okay. Because it’s, we got a couple of weeks where I’m accepting applications and then we’re kicking off. So don’t waste time on this, get yourself in the game, apply. It’s a call with me. It’s not a hard sell. It’s a mutual evaluation. Let’s see where you’re at. Let’s see where you want to be by the middle half of 2022. And let’s see if it’s a good fit. Okay. But you can find out all the details and you can apply, um, at@leastsartre.com slash DK club. So let me say that clearly, one more time, really start your.com/fifty K club. I kind of buzz past that there. So whether you’re, you know, whether now you’re listening to like, oh my gosh, where has this been? Like, sign me up. I’m doing this immediately.

Elyse Archer (47:23):

And that’s great. Or you’re, you’re listening. And you’re like, I would love to, but I’m just not like, I’m not at that $10,000 a month yet, but you’re excited. Like I hope you’re excited. Here’s what I want to leave you with. I hope you’re excited about what’s possible for you when you allow in more. And I also want to just leave you with, if anyone has done it before you, you can to truly, if anyone has done this before you, you can too. And it’s just a matter of claiming it and deciding that you’re not available to play small anymore, and you’re not available to say no to what you want to say yes. To when you’re not available to, to, I think it was, was it Emerson who said go to the grave with your songs still in you? Like that’s, you’re not up for that anymore.

Elyse Archer (48:10):

Okay. So I hope you take that with you as your lesson from this podcast is your as your takeaway and get excited for what life is like at this level and beyond, because it’s brilliant and it’s beautiful and you’re medic, and you’re meant to have more, be more, do more in your life. And if I can support you in doing that through this program, that’s beautiful. And if not, then that’s okay too. But take the message from this and expand your thinking of what is possible for you and what you’re wanting to claim in your life now. All right. So my love that is it for you today, at least searcher.com/fifty K club. If you want to apply, go ahead and get your application. And now so grateful for you. Thank you for being a member of the shoe sales community. And I can’t wait to see you next week with our next episode. Lots of love. Bye for now.