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Building a Powerhouse Personal Brand on LinkedIn w/ Matthew Rolnick

If you want to grow your brand and visibility on social media, especially LinkedIn, you are going to want to listen to today’s episode with my guest Matthew Rolnick, who literally wrote the book on finding your voice and building your brand online.  

Matthew Rolnick is the VP of Strategy & Innovation at Yaymaker, an Amazon Best Selling Author of the book Find Your Yay, Speaker, a Udemy Instructor w/130k+ students enrolled, a Forbes contributing writer, and partners with his wife Sabine Rolnick with Berkshire Hathaway Homeservices Chicago in Real Estate.

The strategies that Matthew talks about in today’s episode are the ones that helped his company get to 60 new corporate clients from LinkedIn content.

 

Show Notes:

[2:45] – Matthew was furloughed at his job during Covid-19. He took to LinkedIn and really leaned into it.

[4:46] – Leaders should encourage employees to share and make posts.

[5:54] – Your natural strengths and interests are potentially the indicators of your voice.

[7:41] – Your hobbies and interests can be tied into what you’re doing in business.

[9:27] – Everyone has a different and unique voice.

[10:58] – There’s a balance that needs to be established on types of posts, but they should all provide value to the person who reads or sees them.

[13:05] – Interviewing others is a great way to connect with other people, gain insight, and create valuable content for others.

[15:16] – You may need to seek leadership buy-in from the company that employs you.

[18:50] – Voice notes on LinkedIn are a great way to make more personalized content.

[21:53] – Matthew’s success can be attributed to a combination of factors, including consistent and valuable content, accessibility, and client testimonials.

[25:08] – How are you forwarding the message? How can you build a name and change the thinking in a space as a thought leader?

[27:19] – Compare it to working out. You won’t see the progress right away, but over time, you’ll see the fruits of your labor.

[28:49] – Many more people are seeing your content than are engaging with it.

[30:11] – Matthew shares the number one lesson he has learned from his wife.



Connect with Matthew Rolnick:

Find Your Yay: Find Your Voice and Grow Your Brand on Social Media by

Matthew Rolnick

Matthew Rolnick on LinkedIn

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Welcome to She Sells Radio if you want to grow your brand and your visibility on social media which I know you do

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specifically LinkedIn which I know so many of my listeners do then you’re going to want to listen into today’s

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episode with my guest Matthew Rolnick who literally wrote the book on finding your voice and building your brand

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online so if you’re not yet familiar with Matthew he’s the VP of strategy and Innovation at yaymaker he’s a

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bestselling author of the book find your yay he’s a speaker he’s a udemy instructor with over

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130,000 students learning from him a Forbes contributing writer and he partners with his wife Sabine who we

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were actually just talking about in the pre-chat so we’ll talk about her a bit more today too um in their real estate

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business so Matthew I’m so glad to have you here today and I understand that what you’re going to tell us about and

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some of what you’re going to teach helped you secure I believe 60 corporate clients for uh for your company from

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LinkedIn is that right that is correct um and great talking to you D’s very excited and I love talking about

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LinkedIn and social selling and building your brand with it so absolutely absolutely yeah well we’re I’m excited

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and uh when you shared that with me when we we connected initially on LinkedIn which is how this came together so I

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think it’s always so powerful when you get to learn from someone who practices what they preach and uses uses it the

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right way um and I’m excited to learn more too because I found for us like LinkedIn is a huge place where we

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connect with clients and grow and I also know there’s so much I can learn and grow in and I want to um and I want to

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dive in with you today so I think before we get into that I would love if you could just share um what got you so

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passionate about helping people find their voice helping them build and create authentic content online like was

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this always something that you could have seen coming or is this something that developed in you over the years um

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well I’ll share at the age of 50 right when the pandemic hit I actually got

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furled from Groupon they fured a lot of managers and their sales professionals and

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um I for some reason I had a lot of peace of mind and I decided to utilize LinkedIn to share ideas to help

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businesses and help others and I was LE a little less worried about myself and I just started posting a lot and it

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started building more connections more people were sharing with me they wanted to hear more at the same time um a

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friend of mine Dan Herman started the company y and paint night and and I

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joined him and he really encouraged me to lean a lot into it where in the past

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when I worked for companies I was a little more concerned like am I aligned with the company brand will they

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encourage me does it need to get approved by their Communications or PR but he’s like Matt go for it share help

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it’s only going to help yay maker and everything we’re doing so I started posting a lot uh about corporate culture

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and team building events and it just started started snowballing where I started building new Partnerships and

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then started getting new clients from it so it really happened I’d say I 20 April

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2020 is when I really started started promoting more and doing more on LinkedIn yeah it’s so interesting when I

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I love um you know getting to connect with all sorts of people varied backgrounds here and uh the pandemic

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clarified a lot of things for a lot of people so it’s it’s interesting that that’s where some of this kind of spawned for you too um that opportunity

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that on the front end probably felt like a big challenge but then on the back end you took it and leveraged it so like

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first lesson right there right for everybody listening is there’s always the gold inside the thing that feels

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challenging um and then I think also for any of our listeners who are CEOs or who

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are leading organizations and sales teams I you said Dan was his name is

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that right yes how you said that he empowered you to just go out and post and share and um some of my background

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is in the personal branding space as well and that’s one of the biggest things that I saw holding companies back was like not encouraging their people to

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post trying to control and uh and and just micromanage every single thing

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their employees put out which it doesn’t work so I know we’re gonna talk more about that today too uh whether you’re

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an entrepreneur or you’re in sales um as a sales leader so so let’s talk about

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this I want to kind of lay the foundation here for if someone is to get

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more visible online and wanting to build their brand um but they they don’t feel

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like they’ve really found their voice yet because I know that’s something that you talk about in your book find your yay and you help people do what is our

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voice online how do we find it how do we figure out what it is like what is there a process is it more just iterative

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trial and error what does that look like so it’s interesting I checked a post I believe you did today and it was for 10

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things women should do to elev at their sales and one of them was what are your

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natural strengths um and you also talked about challenges and setbacks and I

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thought that was important too but anyway I I think we all know what we have personal interests or strengths in

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and I feel like that is an indicator potentially of some of our voice um I do

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like asking CEOs leaders all professionals if you could do one Ted

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Talk what would that be on anything you want open slate and um I

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feel like if somebody can think about or answer that that can help them think about what’s really most important to

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them so I feel like if you can really align personally and professionally what your real message is that can give you

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an indicator on what the kind of the perfect Bullseye is but whatever industry you’re in or whatever role you

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have or if you think you have a per a strength I think that helps you kind of shape your voice and so if you’re it

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doesn’t doesn’t matter the industry whether you’re in Tech whether you’re web development accounting fashion you

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know if you’re in that industry you can start sharing some things that you’re seeing that you find interesting and if

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you’re not necessarily comfortable of saying here’s my all my ideas you might just find an article that you find

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interesting or somebody else’s post and I’d say a step one is saying I saw this on LinkedIn I thought this was

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interesting because of ab or C uh ab and C so anyway I think that’s a step on finding your voice and I think I believe

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in a lot of putting things out there see what resonates with people resonates with yourself but I’d start with your

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industry your role and any personal interest that you have I also believe

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there’s Hobbies people have so I have friends that love pickle ball and they tie pickle ball into lessons with um

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what’s going on in business I mean you can take almost any sport or hobby that you’re personal and and how you relate

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that professionally and that’s something that’s authentic and connects people to you and you give like insights and

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lessons that way so what if somebody is they’re like okay if I could give a TED Talk it would

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be about blank it would be about this thing they they get clarity on it but

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they don’t see how it ties back to what they’re doing in business is it are you saying is it like do something that’s

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totally unrelated to your business or you got to find the tie in and if so I think I know your answer is going to be

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because I know how I approach it but I’m curious to hear what you say how do we find the tie in is there are there

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questions we can ask or is there like a lens we can frame it through I’d love if you could give a little bit of thought

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on that so just to share I have a little ADHD where I try to connect a lot of

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dots that maybe others don’t but I always like to align things personally and professionally um but you know

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there’s some people it’s a really maybe a hot button they just how they want to be communicated it’s just very important

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to be transparent or be fully honest or you know maybe somebody it’s just so important they love being creative I’ll

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say I mean it’s different for everybody I mean for me I talk a lot about

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relationships and to me that’s like everything I mean the most important thing in life besides maybe health and

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other I mean I think relationships are so important with yourself with friends with colleagues with others and so I

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talk a lot about that and I and I use that to tie in a lot of my content um

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but I talk about like what’s important for me when it comes to communication staying in touch with people and I I try

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to encourage people to always be Forward Thinking and helping others not always

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expecting as much in return but it’s like you need to Foster and develop those relationships but um it it’s not a

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clearcut everybody has a different calling a different voice I mean there’s some things I’d say that’s common sense

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I mean the most basic is hey this is my job this is my company this is what I like I can start with you know when it

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comes to selling um for example I like talking to people that have similar

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interests as me and so I’ll connect with people that went to you know whether similar education whether it’s a similar

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sport whether it’s a similar hobby I find I can connect people that way I can send outbound messages that way I find a

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connection that way maybe that’s something you can start with got it I love that I find there’s always a tie in

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and it’s just like what approach are you going to take and and being able to think creatively in that way too so you

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mentioned that so you get furloughed um your starting over essentially right

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building your brand and so you’re working with a business partner who says hey just go post and you said I started

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posting you use the word aggressively but like you were deliberate you were intentional I’d love if you could share

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a little bit more about like specifically what that looks like for you in terms of what you post on

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LinkedIn so do you have something where like every day you do this type of thing

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or do you do a video post on one day and a written post on another is it more organic I think for someone who’s

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looking to okay they’re starting to find their voice they’re they’re trying things out they’re sharing but they need some sort

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of structure or framework to it um what would you say to them so I’ve got a few

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things to say one is I think you got to be careful not to make it too much about yourself you want to make it about others so always providing value and

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again I have to be careful on that because I always have something I want to share promote or sell um so and then

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another thing I do think there’s advantages and I know people content creators that have

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so you know Monday might be a motivational quote Wednesday might be a poll Thursday might be a video Friday

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might be um a little more fun and I’ve and I’ve done some things I mean I’d say

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I’m a little more organic what inspires me um and now and I started more just posting more text then I started doing

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more images now I do more polls and video but I feel like you have to feel

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what’s more natural to you now for me so like for yay maker we do corporate team

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building events so we do paint nights and mixies and speakers and all these things but I realize I just can’t keep

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posting about hey do this event do this so I thought more broadly on what our

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company as a solution we’re helping increase Employee Engagement we’re uh

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improving corporate culture so I started sharing wanted to be more of a thought

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leader on those topics so that’s when like in Forbes I’ll I’ll talk about corporate culture and and I’ll also I’ll

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talk about Employee Engagement and then maybe 10 to 15% of my posts are a little

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more hard-hitting about hey this is what like a yay maker event but for the most part I want to Pro provide value to

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others and I don’t want to make it just about what I what my goals are I’ll share free content or advice like you

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know you can do um um you can do a talent show and you can do that virtually or in person that’s a free way

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of utilizing your employees to get more involved and improve roof culture things like that I mean I talk about you know

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doing a you know I do a lot of dad jokes and uh you know but before a meeting it can be an icebreaker and it can be a

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little bit of a culture Builder get people a little more engaged or things like that but that’s things I like to talk about um that um I’ll share

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something else that’s really um benefited me my company I feel like

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others is just like you’re doing with me I really enjoy interviewing others and

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getting content and thought leadership from others so um even if there’s companies that I’d love to work with

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that really aren’t interested in my product or service I might say hey can I talk to you about corporate culture and

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I’ll interview I’ll ask you five six questions I’ll do it through zoom and on LinkedIn and I find that there’s

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multiple benefits from that one is I get some great content um two I I feel like

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I strengthen the relationship of the the person I talk to and then I noticed um a

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lot of people from that company will start in engaging in that content and

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then often and again sometimes um they’ll reach back afterwards and they’re like how can I work with you

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more or and so uh without even me asking just putting out more content shining

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the light more on others it has organically driven a lot of business for us yeah AB it’s the power of platform

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right always it’s I I I go on a lot of interviews my favorite thing is getting

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to interview ask questions it’s like I already I already know about myself I want to find out about other people and

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to your point there’s all of those other things that can happen with that too what if somebody’s listening and we I would say with our listeners and I

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haven’t done like a poll but I would say when I look at our client base it’s probably 60 to 70% entrepreneur 30 to

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40% corporate give or take but I want to take a moment for those who are

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listening who are in corporate sales who are like it would be brilliant to launch a LinkedIn live series and interview my

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target clients and I want to post more but they’re they’re bumping up against

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either regulations or compliance or a lot of restrictions around what they can

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and can’t post do you have any advice is it like sorry you got to find another way or is there a way you can approach

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your leadership like what what would you say to someone because we’ve got clients and members actively in our community

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who are doing this now in their company and it’s like it’s working but they had to get Buy in from leadership so how

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would you approach that so I guess a couple folds I mean one is I’m always encouraging CEOs and leaders and HR

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departments to encourage employees to post more on on LinkedIn I mean to to to

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embrace it uh you know obviously there’s certain topics you know anything very

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charged political religion things like that encourage employees to stay away from so add add some bumpers but in

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general encourage employees too now if you’re an employee or you’re sales

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professional you’re like you have this ambition to post more and things like that yeah I think just reaching out to

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who up to you report to to say hey I’m looking at doing this share with them your content or ideas I I I’d like to

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believe more and more companies are embracing that or things like that it you know if a company is really got

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handcuffing people to say hey we do not want you to post anything unless it comes from our Communications Department

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then it gets extra challenging um you know then I’m a Believer in more engaging in other people’s content and

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you can add your content Contex so like one of uh one of the highest engagement

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responses I had with Gary vaynerchuk he’s obviously a very uh strong leader

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thought leader on LinkedIn very much I once posted you know some context on one

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of his posts and next thing you know is I saw somebody else says here’s my like five favorite responses from Gary Vayner

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highlighted me and I had some other people reaching out to me or things like that so you know hopefully you can find

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a way and again I think it’s just a quick business case um to just say hey this is what I’m doing I also think too

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is if as long as you’re promoting the business most people that I know that are posting things on LinkedIn and it’s

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showing their company in a good light and themselves they’re not getting pushed back and usually worst case

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scenario would be a company be like hey let me know this beforehand and again have to be very careful professionally

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how to share that with somebody but in general if you use good judgment I think most of the time it’s applauded um and

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like there’s a woman uh Drew beerworth who uh uh with this company carbin who

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we talk pronoun she goes by she and they and it was something that I was very interested in and C but her company very

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much embraced her and I interviewed her and things like and it was just but again a lot of even the company liked it

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or things like that so I feel like most people will be should be pleasantly surprised of a company encourage because

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it’s free marketing too for that company yeah absolutely and I think we’ve we’ve come a long way I started digital

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marketing in like I don’t know like 08 like it’s so it’s like it’s come a long way since then um and I’m just we’ve got

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a lot of listeners in finance or Insurance where they’re working with compliance so I think one of the things that you shared which I like is there’s

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always a way there’s always a work around even if it’s commenting and engaging on other people’s content there’s a way to do it and build build

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thought leadership so one of the other things I want to ask you about Matthew because you did this and I was really um

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I appreciated it because I send a lot of voice notes I don’t get a lot back but you reached out and you introduced yourself to me on LinkedIn with a voice

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note and it was super personable and friendly and um it’s like little stuff

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like that that just stands out so with LinkedIn or social media in general

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there’s obviously the marketing aspect so putting out the content but then there’s also how do you convert and I’m

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a saleswoman at heart I I I love marketing but I love selling even more

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and I know you said that you used your own LinkedIn content to generate 60 corporate leads for yay maker and I

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forget if there was a time frame on that but it was like I remember it was like an impressive amount of leads and a short amount of time yeah really within

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the first year I mean is really when the bulk of things I mean it was the time when uh again when the pandemic

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companies were struggling what to do to connect I was talking a lot about engaging employees and it was important

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and I was just getting calls after calls messages on LinkedIn saying boy I love

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what you said and I’d love to work with you so um so most of them were then I’m still getting several now but most of

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them were I’d say within the first 12 months and again what you said about the

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the LinkedIn voice message that’s just a free feature on someone’s mobile um I’m somebody I’ve got over 15,000 followers

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on LinkedIn and most I’m connected to to to me I take a lot of pride in nurturing those most people I’m connected I try to

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leave a message at least once a year a lot of people you know once every few months and I I do find I like to share

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as a tip I say this is a way to kind of stand out or break through I find a little more personalized or engaging and

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uh I do a lot of LinkedIn messages if I see something an article um I’ll often

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forwarded to people in my LinkedIn Network who I might not be that close to or talk to just saying hey I thought you might find this interesting and I’ll do

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a lot of intros on LinkedIn like somebody might have a podcast somebody might be a a you know for somebody like

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yourself there might be an amazing female uh leader salesperson that has just a a really strong voice and a

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message I might just be like hey I think you two should connect but I am I love being a Matchmaker I love being a super

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connector and I just push that out um I don’t and I find um I do it because I

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like to help people but some people there’s a reciproc proy where they want to help back and for every 20 messages

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or intros I do I usually find one or two come back and so I just love doing that

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yeah I love that I love that that’s um so I took down a note there too because

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that’s so interesting like 15,000 connections and you’re trying to touch a lot of them you know at least once a

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year which is powerful um we could go down a whole rabbit hole with that I I

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don’t think we will but one of the things that I was curious about so with these you you start off the company

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you’ve got 60 so it wasn’t leads it was clients 60 new corporate clients within the first year of doing this so I just

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want everyone listening to think about that’s what five a month if we average it out like what would five new clients

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a month or five additional clients a month do for your bottom line how did you do that was that a combination of

20:51

posting and then you were reaching out to people in DMS or was it literally just your posting and they’re like hey

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Matthew we love that which is I mean it’s like everyone’s dream is they just have an inbox full of leads but I feel

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like there’s probably some Outreach on your part too like tell us a little bit about what that look like so it is a

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combination it was a combination of putting out content it was letting people making myself very accessible or available if you have any questions let

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me know um it was me just trying to help other people there’s a lot of people that were looking for opportunities or

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jobs that I would make sure I’d reach out I always think it’s important to reach out people when they’re having challenging times later when they became

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leaders new positions or companies they reach out to me um in wanting to do team building events um I also really

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encourage uh testimonials so um and that’s been really powerful so uh often

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after an event or something like that I’ll ask somebody if they’re comfortable you know writing a few things or doing a

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testimonial and if they’re if they just write me a few words then I can share it with our you know marketing or put it

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together and as a testimonial I find those when people started seeing more and more more sea Lev High VP levels

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working with us um and and these were a lot of people would be in my network um

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that was really influenced like I I worked for Groupon for almost uh eight years and I would say a high percentage

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of those were in my group on network working now for other companies um but when they see some very high level

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people working with me or working with the aaker and then they shout out that hey we had the best murder mystery

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experience or things like that it was awesome AB n c um and they’d post it and I’d reshare it um that would that really

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helped uh I’d say be a catalyst for more leads because they’re like oh if that so I’m a real believer in those third-party

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examples those testimonials and getting others to also shout you out it’s I mean I’m a self-promoter but when other

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people can shout out the things you’re working on I think that’s I I think that is really strong and um you know I I

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want interviewed uh Joey nevka he’s the VP of sales and operations I believe both of of house and it was amazing

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because I interviewed him he shared some content on how to be a successful leader

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he had uh he was really organized with it he had three his three C’s on building a great strategy and he talked

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about coordination and communication and uh and I got to remember what the third SE was but again

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but basically um and after actually in the interiew he shouted out yay maker and and basically like hey um it was um

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you know we had a great team building experience thank you and again he had just some really strong content um he

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was very well respected within Groupon within other leaders other companies and how so I’ve like repurpose some of his

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content into little 60c Clips or things like that and reposts but I find the the

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the the power of your network and other people’s network uh can really help um

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improve your thought leadership credibility but also help bring in new sales yeah okay that makes a ton of

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sense and it’s so I wanted to ask you I’ve got probably two final questions and one of them was about thought

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leadership and when you mentioned uh the three C’s I thought that’s ex I mean it’s that’s thought leadership right so

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um my friends Rory and AJ over at Brand Builders Group who by the way I should introduce you to if you’re not familiar with them yet um it’d be a great contact

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but I talk about thought leadership is how are you forwarding the message of what’s already been said so for someone

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who’s building their brand and they don’t want to just like generate leads but they also want to truly leave a

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legacy and build a a name and change maybe the thinking in a in a space and

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be seen as a thought leader how do you know when you’re there like can can you be a thought leader right away just by

24:46

sharing content do you need to come up with your own methodology and Frameworks like guess I’d love to hear your take on

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it and how we know when we are when we’re truly thought leaders so I do think it’s an evolving

24:59

evergo evolving journey I mean there are people who are much stronger thought leaders than myself I’ve kind of

25:05

self-proclaimed I’m a thought leader in um a few lanes um I was honored uh

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LinkedIn uh badge me as a top entrepreneurship voice so that kind of felt more validity but I um so that that

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felt good but I think realistically it’s you know when you get others asking for your advice I mean that that to me is I

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mean that then you’re now being more more of a thought leadership I mean when I have friends and family um now asking

25:32

me for my advice on hey what should I do on LinkedIn or how should I brand myself or I’m thinking about my first article I

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mean to me it’s baby steps but I mean once your people are asking you for advice I feel like now you’re at least a

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a micro thought leader so um you know so I mean there’s I’m sure there’s different measures or exact things but I

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mean I would say if you’re getting you know at least you know a couple times a month someone asking you for advice

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advice I mean you’re on your way but again just keep just like working out the more you put into it you’re going to

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see the results it’s you know after three weeks you might not see many results but after three months six months a year two years you’re going to

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see the fruits of your labor and I think the same thing’s true with thought leadership um and then for me also when

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I get asked to be on more podcast or I asked to contribute or collaborate with an article or asked to be on a board

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those are indicators to me that my content’s working um and that people are

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seeing me more as a thought leader yeah well and I think what you shared there too at the end about think about it like

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working out is so important um when so I I know uh AJ and Rory from I worked with

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them at at their company brand builders for um some time and have a lot of respect for them and we would coach people to launch podcasts and so Rory’s

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advice to people was always don’t look at your numbers for a year like don’t even look at the downloads for a year

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and I think that’s it sounds like what you’re saying too and I know for me if I post something and then I get too caught

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up in what are the numbers and who likes it and who doesn’t I mean number one there’s so many people who see your

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things that will never comment they’ll never like but you’re you’re dripping on them and you’re influencing them and

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over time eventually some of them are going to come forward and say hey I’d love your help I’d love your service and

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you just you never know right it’s like that law of reciprocity um and it it’s a slow build and I think get that like be

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in it for the long run yeah I have to sh one thing there was once I was at a wedding and this was I want to say about

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8 10 months ago and I was sitting next to someone who I used to work with it was that group when he was a manager and now he’s like a VP of another company

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and he shared oh yeah we did an event with you and it was amazing he’s never engaged in any of my content never like

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commented that I remember anything or that or very rarely and I had no idea but it was the influence of me putting

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content out there and him seeing others and the combination of things that he just reached out or went on our site and

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and booked an event and that was something I didn’t even know so there I mean literally it’s probably a 100 times

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as many people are seeing your content than engaging your content if you get a 1% engagement that’s probably pretty good 2% probably great but I’m just

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saying so realize 50 to 100 times as many people are seeing it and you just never know and sometimes it just takes

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that one I had one person reach out to me and we did almost a seven figure uh

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partnership deal because of just staying in close connected and he’s singing me on LinkedIn amazing I love that so much

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yeah you literally never know um Bren and bashard has this great quote he says never underestimate the value of one and

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I think that’s so important to remember with social because if we judge it based

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on who’s responding and how are first of all I think that’s a a fast track to not being willing to show up and position

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yourself as a thought leader because you’re too concerned about what other people think which is not thought leadership in my opinion um and then two

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you’ll stop and you don’t realize what’s going on behind the scenes and who you could be impacting so it’s so powerful I

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want to ask so I I shared this with you in the pre-chat um before we recorded when I have men on the show I love asking about the women in their lives

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and I know you’ve got a a wife who’s a real estate Powerhouse and she’s a professor like very well educated um

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from what you shared and and so I’d love to hear from you Matthew for uh Sabine right I think is her name what is what

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would you say is the number one life lesson that you’ve learned from

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Sabine wow the number one life lesson I’ve learned from be I mean you know

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passion makes a big difference I mean if you’re if you literally jump into what

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you’re doing with passion and with the goal to really help people if that’s really you’re not a salesperson you are

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really there as a support and a consultant if that’s really your mind frame I think that goes a long way I

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mean so yeah you’re right my wife you know I love talking and bragging about her she went Yale undergrad got her PhD

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in Psychology had some health challenges had to leave the whole educational but

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but then after a few years break she got into real estate and I see her mind

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frame she doesn’t look at I mean it’s not about the dollars she treats whether someone’s buying a $100,000 condo or a

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$3 million property or so this the same way like she like their family and and

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and she connects with people so I always talk about connection but if you’re really if people know that you care

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about them that I I feel like that may be one of the most important things so with uh with Sabine I mean she lives

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breathes and see it she loves helping people and I feel like that has been instrumental in her success yeah that’s

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so good that’s there’s so many lessons there from what you shared and I think that’s at the end of the day the bottom

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line for us in sales or entrepreneurs is just care about people treat everyone

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right it’s very best you can and um and it always comes back so thank you so

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much for this this was so fun yeah I’d love if you could share Matthew where can people connect with

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you so if you want to share your LinkedIn um I know people can get your book as well on Amazon or I’m assuming other books I where people can go yeah

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so yeah I always like to promote my book find your yay but that’s on Amazon you can get that uh um my email is uh M

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rollneck my first initial last name at ym maker.com but really my preference is

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people connect with me on LinkedIn so they can find me on LinkedIn Matthew rck and um and yeah as I said I love

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connecting with people and trying to find new opportunities collaborations and uh I make myself fairly accessible

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so amazing thank you so much so yeah if you’re listening go connect with Matthew on LinkedIn let him know you heard him

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here on the show and uh thanks again this was really really fun and I’m I’m thinking in a bigger way about our

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content too that we share so I really appreciate it well thanks Elise I look forward to staying in touch and collaborating with you as well and

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wishing you the best thank you you so much all right my listener go connect with Matthew online go check out his

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book find your yay will’ll uh link everything here in the show notes as always I’m so grateful for you being a

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part of the shells Community I’ll see you on our next episode bye for now



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